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I am so ****** that I could spit bullets...
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<blockquote data-quote="CrazyinVA" data-source="post: 466756" data-attributes="member: 1157"><p><img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /> I'm so sorry your XMIL betrayed your trust like that. I'd be pretty hurt as well. As for your daughter's reaction to all that, do your best to push that aside... it's pretty typical difficult child reaction/deflection. You've done absolutely nothing wrong. SHE has, in spades. She's just trying to throw the blame onto you. </p><p></p><p>Keep in mind that whatever XMIL actually said may be vastly different from what your daughter is telling you. While she obviously betrayed your confidence, I'd bet anything that your daughter is putting a nasty spin on it, and throwing inflections into your XMIL's "voice" that weren't there when she told her whatever she told her. She's probably also embellishing the story considerably, maybe even adding things she assumed you told your XMIL just to fish for information. difficult children are masters at this... and at driving wedges between the relationships of other people. </p><p></p><p>Keep all of this in mind as you decide how and when to confront your XMIL about all this.. maybe even sleep on it first. </p><p></p><p>been there done that with having to hide pills.. I have to do this when Oldest comes over. It's frustrating, but necessary, with an addict. One time she even switched out some antibiotics for the tablets of hydrocodone in a bottle.</p><p></p><p>Hugs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="CrazyinVA, post: 466756, member: 1157"] :( I'm so sorry your XMIL betrayed your trust like that. I'd be pretty hurt as well. As for your daughter's reaction to all that, do your best to push that aside... it's pretty typical difficult child reaction/deflection. You've done absolutely nothing wrong. SHE has, in spades. She's just trying to throw the blame onto you. Keep in mind that whatever XMIL actually said may be vastly different from what your daughter is telling you. While she obviously betrayed your confidence, I'd bet anything that your daughter is putting a nasty spin on it, and throwing inflections into your XMIL's "voice" that weren't there when she told her whatever she told her. She's probably also embellishing the story considerably, maybe even adding things she assumed you told your XMIL just to fish for information. difficult children are masters at this... and at driving wedges between the relationships of other people. Keep all of this in mind as you decide how and when to confront your XMIL about all this.. maybe even sleep on it first. been there done that with having to hide pills.. I have to do this when Oldest comes over. It's frustrating, but necessary, with an addict. One time she even switched out some antibiotics for the tablets of hydrocodone in a bottle. Hugs. [/QUOTE]
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