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<blockquote data-quote="Fran" data-source="post: 289414" data-attributes="member: 3"><p>Lisa, it's all about setting limits and being up front. </p><p>It's not necessary to be mean or cruel but you (in my humble opinion) need to be direct. </p><p>I simply could not spend 2 hrs of my valuable time chatting with a virtual stranger no matter how nice they were. Telling her that you have other work to do is honest. </p><p>My thinking is that if I give up my spare time to strangers then I have nothing left for the real people I care about. </p><p>If she doesn't accept that you have housework or school work to do then it's time to turn away. Sort of like dogs jumping on people. Much better to turn your back to them then try to correct them with words or pushing at them.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Fran, post: 289414, member: 3"] Lisa, it's all about setting limits and being up front. It's not necessary to be mean or cruel but you (in my humble opinion) need to be direct. I simply could not spend 2 hrs of my valuable time chatting with a virtual stranger no matter how nice they were. Telling her that you have other work to do is honest. My thinking is that if I give up my spare time to strangers then I have nothing left for the real people I care about. If she doesn't accept that you have housework or school work to do then it's time to turn away. Sort of like dogs jumping on people. Much better to turn your back to them then try to correct them with words or pushing at them. [/QUOTE]
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