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I can't believe she's gone.
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<blockquote data-quote="Steely" data-source="post: 446949" data-attributes="member: 3301"><p>I am so very sorry. I totally understand how you feel, it is devastating to not be able to say goodbye. I never got to do that with my sister - it was just she is missing, and then, she is dead. I lost my mind for awhile. However, the grief got better over time. But it takes --- time.</p><p></p><p>With my father's passing this March, I knew how horrible it was to not say goodbye, so I called everyone he loved and said if you want to say goodbye you must come NOW. Some of my relatives did not believe now was NOW - but his best friend did - and his nephew did. After his nephew gave him a hug goodbye, he died hours later. He held on for those 2 people - but there were many others that I am sure he said goodbye to in his own psyche and spirit - just like I am sure your friend did to you. </p><p></p><p>I always believed that my sister must have said goodbye to me as she was dying - and when I go to the place they found her - I feel it. The harder part is for me to say goodbye to her. That is the true challenge.</p><p></p><p>Many, many hugs - I know how hard this is. Hang on. Time will heal.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Steely, post: 446949, member: 3301"] I am so very sorry. I totally understand how you feel, it is devastating to not be able to say goodbye. I never got to do that with my sister - it was just she is missing, and then, she is dead. I lost my mind for awhile. However, the grief got better over time. But it takes --- time. With my father's passing this March, I knew how horrible it was to not say goodbye, so I called everyone he loved and said if you want to say goodbye you must come NOW. Some of my relatives did not believe now was NOW - but his best friend did - and his nephew did. After his nephew gave him a hug goodbye, he died hours later. He held on for those 2 people - but there were many others that I am sure he said goodbye to in his own psyche and spirit - just like I am sure your friend did to you. I always believed that my sister must have said goodbye to me as she was dying - and when I go to the place they found her - I feel it. The harder part is for me to say goodbye to her. That is the true challenge. Many, many hugs - I know how hard this is. Hang on. Time will heal. [/QUOTE]
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