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<blockquote data-quote="Andy" data-source="post: 383314" data-attributes="member: 5096"><p>Hugs to you Jen!</p><p> </p><p>You are doing great! Leaving her there is so hard! I am amazed that she looks fine after her ordeal. You have run out of options so this one better work. I think restricting visits with ex-H is in order or insist on supervised visits while she is hospitalized. Him bad mouthing you will only give her fuel for her battle.</p><p> </p><p>I am glad the doctor pointed out to her that eating was in her control. She knows she is driving this scenerio and needs to know that her actions do have consequences. It does feel like a power struggle and she has the power to end the struggle. </p><p> </p><p>You didn't mention food phobia this post - where does that issue stand? This has gotten so complicated - so many issues to address all leading in a circle. Did the doctor give you a long range plan on how to handle this once she starts cooperating with the program? Are they addressing her fear of choking besides saying, "You will not choke, eat and we will prove it!" Everything seems so harsh.</p><p> </p><p>Like you said, you can no longer do this on your own at home.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Andy, post: 383314, member: 5096"] Hugs to you Jen! You are doing great! Leaving her there is so hard! I am amazed that she looks fine after her ordeal. You have run out of options so this one better work. I think restricting visits with ex-H is in order or insist on supervised visits while she is hospitalized. Him bad mouthing you will only give her fuel for her battle. I am glad the doctor pointed out to her that eating was in her control. She knows she is driving this scenerio and needs to know that her actions do have consequences. It does feel like a power struggle and she has the power to end the struggle. You didn't mention food phobia this post - where does that issue stand? This has gotten so complicated - so many issues to address all leading in a circle. Did the doctor give you a long range plan on how to handle this once she starts cooperating with the program? Are they addressing her fear of choking besides saying, "You will not choke, eat and we will prove it!" Everything seems so harsh. Like you said, you can no longer do this on your own at home. [/QUOTE]
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