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I didn't think 35 could shock me anymore, but what horrible parenting!!
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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 585445" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>Horribly immature. Both in his dependence with you and treatment of J. He seems to be trying to develop an emotional dependence on J too, sort of like the one he has with you.......it seems. (the whole he betrayed me part) That is quite unhealthy for both of them. </p><p></p><p>However many divorced or separated parents talk about the ex that way around the children or to the children. What they don't realize is that instead of damaging the relationship between the ex and the child.........it damages the relationship between the parent doing it and the child. If both parents are doing it......then the child is just plain in a mess. My mom did this most of my life, until the day I really ripped her a new one about it. I can remember being real little and she had her 2nd husband (the man I call dad) separated and they both did it. No peace no matter which one you were with. I think I was maybe 7-8 when I told them both I wasn't spying or talking about the other one to them. They needed to know something, they could find out themselves. My dad stopped. It made him realize what he was doing. Mom, however, didn't ever quit. </p><p></p><p>Any luck getting son into see a therapist?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 585445, member: 84"] Horribly immature. Both in his dependence with you and treatment of J. He seems to be trying to develop an emotional dependence on J too, sort of like the one he has with you.......it seems. (the whole he betrayed me part) That is quite unhealthy for both of them. However many divorced or separated parents talk about the ex that way around the children or to the children. What they don't realize is that instead of damaging the relationship between the ex and the child.........it damages the relationship between the parent doing it and the child. If both parents are doing it......then the child is just plain in a mess. My mom did this most of my life, until the day I really ripped her a new one about it. I can remember being real little and she had her 2nd husband (the man I call dad) separated and they both did it. No peace no matter which one you were with. I think I was maybe 7-8 when I told them both I wasn't spying or talking about the other one to them. They needed to know something, they could find out themselves. My dad stopped. It made him realize what he was doing. Mom, however, didn't ever quit. Any luck getting son into see a therapist? [/QUOTE]
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