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<blockquote data-quote="mstang67chic" data-source="post: 312296" data-attributes="member: 2459"><p>First of all....GO TO THE DOCTOR!!!!!</p><p></p><p>Sorry.....didn't mean to yeall but geesh! Sick for WEEKS??? Hellooooooooo!!!! <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/tongue.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":tongue:" title="tongue :tongue:" data-shortname=":tongue:" /></p><p></p><p>Ok now, here's what I think you should do.</p><p></p><p>You: Kt, we need to talk.</p><p></p><p>Kt: What? (snotty)</p><p></p><p>You (calmly but in a matter of fact manner): This house, the one you live in, is OUR house. Our being myself and husband. You do not own it, help pay for it or have any legal claim to it. We ALLOW you to live here. husband is my HUSBAND. You are my DAUGHTER. While I love you very much, I didn't choose you....I got what God/fate/the faeries (pick one or insert one of your own) gave me. I CHOSE husband. I'm done mediating, I'm done talking, I'm done period. As I said, I love you but if you can not even attempt to show husband even the most basic of respect or courtesy in his OWN house, you are not welcome to live here. I love you but I've had it with your attitude, your nastiness and your attempts to turn people against me/husband. Unless you can behave as the civil "adult" you claim to be, you can go live with your Grandmother. You have a week to make up your mind or pack. Your choice.</p><p></p><p>Then walk away. I know she'll probably start arguing, yelling, blaming, whatever but continue with your talk and then walk away. Leave the house if you have to but walk away. And of course, give husband a heads up so he's not gobsmacked when she runs to him screaming about ruining her life and how he's the devil.</p><p></p><p></p><p>Hugs. You've had enough and you and husband deserve to have your marriage back. She's an adult. She needs to either act like it or get out.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="mstang67chic, post: 312296, member: 2459"] First of all....GO TO THE DOCTOR!!!!! Sorry.....didn't mean to yeall but geesh! Sick for WEEKS??? Hellooooooooo!!!! :raspberry-tounge: Ok now, here's what I think you should do. You: Kt, we need to talk. Kt: What? (snotty) You (calmly but in a matter of fact manner): This house, the one you live in, is OUR house. Our being myself and husband. You do not own it, help pay for it or have any legal claim to it. We ALLOW you to live here. husband is my HUSBAND. You are my DAUGHTER. While I love you very much, I didn't choose you....I got what God/fate/the faeries (pick one or insert one of your own) gave me. I CHOSE husband. I'm done mediating, I'm done talking, I'm done period. As I said, I love you but if you can not even attempt to show husband even the most basic of respect or courtesy in his OWN house, you are not welcome to live here. I love you but I've had it with your attitude, your nastiness and your attempts to turn people against me/husband. Unless you can behave as the civil "adult" you claim to be, you can go live with your Grandmother. You have a week to make up your mind or pack. Your choice. Then walk away. I know she'll probably start arguing, yelling, blaming, whatever but continue with your talk and then walk away. Leave the house if you have to but walk away. And of course, give husband a heads up so he's not gobsmacked when she runs to him screaming about ruining her life and how he's the devil. Hugs. You've had enough and you and husband deserve to have your marriage back. She's an adult. She needs to either act like it or get out. [/QUOTE]
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