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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 268362" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Hi there. Welcome. Sweetie, you are NOT completely dependent on husband. He sounds like he harms rather than helps you. Have you tried to collect disability? Then, it may be helpful to your condition to try to move to an apartment for those on limited income. At least you'd have peace. I don't want anything to happen to you because of all the stress and there ARE ways out. </p><p></p><p></p><p>Is husband her father? If so, he sounds like he has some mental health issues which she could have inherited. If not, in my opinion he should let you to do the parenting and stop throwing fuel on the fire by acting like he's two years old.</p><p></p><p>Your daughter is going to be eighteen soon and you can choose to make her leave home if she doesn't shape up. She has the symptoms of a drug abuser. Do you know if she uses drugs?</p><p></p><p>Sadly, there isn't much you can do with a teenager of seventeen legally. Most of the time they are treated like badly behaving adults and you have to decide how you want to handle her behavior (and husband's too!). </p><p></p><p>in my opinion they both have serious mental health issues. I'd say your husband has more than just anger management issues. Sounds to this layperson like he may have a mood disorder and is out of control. Does he drink a lot? Use drugs? </p><p></p><p>You have your hands full. I would get a therapist to help YOU deal with the people around you. You also need to learn to trust your instincts and to be strong. Sounds like husband can be quite the bully.</p><p></p><p>I don't know who your bigger problem is, him or your daughter, but you deserve a peaceful life. I think your #1 issue right now, since your child is probably not going to change unless you place her in an Residential Treatment Center (RTC), is to take care of yourself. (((Hugs)))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 268362, member: 1550"] Hi there. Welcome. Sweetie, you are NOT completely dependent on husband. He sounds like he harms rather than helps you. Have you tried to collect disability? Then, it may be helpful to your condition to try to move to an apartment for those on limited income. At least you'd have peace. I don't want anything to happen to you because of all the stress and there ARE ways out. Is husband her father? If so, he sounds like he has some mental health issues which she could have inherited. If not, in my opinion he should let you to do the parenting and stop throwing fuel on the fire by acting like he's two years old. Your daughter is going to be eighteen soon and you can choose to make her leave home if she doesn't shape up. She has the symptoms of a drug abuser. Do you know if she uses drugs? Sadly, there isn't much you can do with a teenager of seventeen legally. Most of the time they are treated like badly behaving adults and you have to decide how you want to handle her behavior (and husband's too!). in my opinion they both have serious mental health issues. I'd say your husband has more than just anger management issues. Sounds to this layperson like he may have a mood disorder and is out of control. Does he drink a lot? Use drugs? You have your hands full. I would get a therapist to help YOU deal with the people around you. You also need to learn to trust your instincts and to be strong. Sounds like husband can be quite the bully. I don't know who your bigger problem is, him or your daughter, but you deserve a peaceful life. I think your #1 issue right now, since your child is probably not going to change unless you place her in an Residential Treatment Center (RTC), is to take care of yourself. (((Hugs))) [/QUOTE]
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