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I guess I made difficult child mad!
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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 505376" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>Tired, none of this is your fault. You didnt set out to ruin his life. You made all the decisions over the years to make his life the best it could be. I am sure of that. I really doubt that you made decisions thinking that oh boy, I can screw up his life right now so that when he is 21, he will be a mess...or that when he is 25 he will do this that or the other. And the gosh, when he is 33, he will be homeless and he can blame me. Oh that is just what you set out to do right? What mother sits back when her baby is born and thinks like that? Well my mom did but not normal ones. I know you are good mom because you came here. My mom would have never tried to get help and she sure wouldnt have come to a place looking for support.</p><p></p><p>Now...about your son. Please let him figure this out on his own. He is 33 years old and he needs to grow up and learn to take care of himself. I have a 55 year old man sitting in my house right now because he has become homeless again for the umpteenth time and worn out his welcome at everyone else's house so now my SO is the the last brother that will help him. If I had my way he wouldnt be here. He has supposedly been clean since around September. Who knows. He is a complete idiot with health issues that worry me. He has no idea how to really support himself except for menial jobs and he is a just a mess. He actually thinks Burger King is a fine dining place! This will be your son if you keep rescuing him.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 505376, member: 1514"] Tired, none of this is your fault. You didnt set out to ruin his life. You made all the decisions over the years to make his life the best it could be. I am sure of that. I really doubt that you made decisions thinking that oh boy, I can screw up his life right now so that when he is 21, he will be a mess...or that when he is 25 he will do this that or the other. And the gosh, when he is 33, he will be homeless and he can blame me. Oh that is just what you set out to do right? What mother sits back when her baby is born and thinks like that? Well my mom did but not normal ones. I know you are good mom because you came here. My mom would have never tried to get help and she sure wouldnt have come to a place looking for support. Now...about your son. Please let him figure this out on his own. He is 33 years old and he needs to grow up and learn to take care of himself. I have a 55 year old man sitting in my house right now because he has become homeless again for the umpteenth time and worn out his welcome at everyone else's house so now my SO is the the last brother that will help him. If I had my way he wouldnt be here. He has supposedly been clean since around September. Who knows. He is a complete idiot with health issues that worry me. He has no idea how to really support himself except for menial jobs and he is a just a mess. He actually thinks Burger King is a fine dining place! This will be your son if you keep rescuing him. [/QUOTE]
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