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<blockquote data-quote="totoro" data-source="post: 69659" data-attributes="member: 3155"><p>Religion aside... all of this can be taken from us in a moments notice. We need to know that whether we have g'sfg or not!</p><p></p><p>I am a classic example of the come and go syndrome... I went from welfare as a kid, to adopted dad doing OK, to him getting fully disabled, welfare again, to Bio-father, filthy rich,(drug dealer), To on my own living in dumps, trying to get through high school, welfare again... started doing OK, poverty again... never insured during any of this time. </p><p>By the time K was born we had to put her on our credit card!!! Now we actually are doing pretty well.</p><p>Unfortunately that is all people see.(That we are doing pretty well) But I so realize that any of this can change, for better or worse. </p><p>I can rely on nothing being definate!!! But for me knowing what it is like to have and not have, I know I am happy either way... </p><p>My kids are still the same as am I and husband. </p><p>Exercise is key, I need to do more. and as others have said, looking at things positively...</p><p></p><p>Yoga, walks, pilates and swimming are the things that truly help husband and I ... </p><p>I also will read others post and realise everyone has different levels of what they can handle. It doesn't make us weak, it is maybe what we are used to? Something tragic happens and we are not set up to deal with it... I deal with some things better than husband and he better with some things than I.. </p><p></p><p>Hang in there, we all have our ups and downs... some just seem to happen daily!!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="totoro, post: 69659, member: 3155"] Religion aside... all of this can be taken from us in a moments notice. We need to know that whether we have g'sfg or not! I am a classic example of the come and go syndrome... I went from welfare as a kid, to adopted dad doing OK, to him getting fully disabled, welfare again, to Bio-father, filthy rich,(drug dealer), To on my own living in dumps, trying to get through high school, welfare again... started doing OK, poverty again... never insured during any of this time. By the time K was born we had to put her on our credit card!!! Now we actually are doing pretty well. Unfortunately that is all people see.(That we are doing pretty well) But I so realize that any of this can change, for better or worse. I can rely on nothing being definate!!! But for me knowing what it is like to have and not have, I know I am happy either way... My kids are still the same as am I and husband. Exercise is key, I need to do more. and as others have said, looking at things positively... Yoga, walks, pilates and swimming are the things that truly help husband and I ... I also will read others post and realise everyone has different levels of what they can handle. It doesn't make us weak, it is maybe what we are used to? Something tragic happens and we are not set up to deal with it... I deal with some things better than husband and he better with some things than I.. Hang in there, we all have our ups and downs... some just seem to happen daily!!! [/QUOTE]
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