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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 570285" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>Well.......I'm not the Sugar Plum Fairy.....Possibly the Snow Queen....(looks outside the bleek first day of Winter) nooooooooope (pops the p) I think I'm more like the Rake the yard with the Husquvarna and a Dull Blade Queen. (nods a yes) Yeah but that wasn't in the Nutcracker. No one that I can remember comes careening across the stage, sputtering wind and a 50/50 mix of gas and....(thinks a minute no......that's DEFINITELY THE weed eater.....(says it like RAIN MAN.....DEFINITELY) the weed eater.......but no one comes barreling across the stage in the Nutcracker on an Orange Tractor mulching leaves So I have to either be the Snow Flake Queen or the SHug Plum Fairy. Since We in the SOuf? I'm pickin SHug Plum Fairy. Nary a drop of snow to be found. Too bad......I would have made a dang doodle of an Ice Queen. </p><p></p><p>I have long.......LONNNNNNNNg said that you and Tony seem to go from one disaster to another. I lived like that for years and years.....and years. ANd I watch now as other people go like that and I think......There but for the grace of a buttload of therapy......Go I. And I say that earnestly and Honestly because I still have my ups and downs and LORD KNOWS I'm quirky.....(really Star?) But the things that YOU tolerate in YOUR life Janet? (long exhale) I often wonder.....WHY. And it's not that I would just ask YOU that. Some days I'd ask Tony that too. It seemed like both of you were () close to having life to yourselfs when Cory moved out, and Billy had a girlfriend. and then BUCK showed up and rocked your word, Keyana moved out.....and if you think about it....You guys have ONE bloody crisis after another, after another after another ......and there is NEVER any recovery time where the TWO of you.......PATCH things up or make up or HUG or have PRIVATE time.......or recoup. And by the time either of you think about it? Its been YEARs. And years. </p><p>I'm not an expert....far from it.....But I know at one time you two loved each other more fiercely than any other couple I've met in a long time. Did you BOTH forget that? Or did so many things just keep happening and happening that the bridge broke and now your on opposite sides of the town.....with a rage running through the middle of both of your lives....???? I can't answer that. But it almost seems like he's bound and determined to help buck like you help the kids. Where did your GIVE and TAKE go? It's there......it's just on vacation for BOTH of you....it's not just him. </p><p></p><p>And his back is miserable, his teeth are miserable.....and he still works. And you don't feel well, and you battle MAJOR depression every day .......and neither of you seem to remember that about the other...and give each other the credit for SURVIVING HELL on earth with CORY, and LIFE, and Gosh knows what else. You two are tough. </p><p></p><p>Okay so your room is a mess......and you feel like (pftffffffffff) COMPROMISE......Take a bag a day.....and sit for 30 minutes and fill it......and take it outside. ONE BAG......it shows him you're trying. ANd I have no doubt Christmas time is a hard time of year. I've lived with EEyore for so many 13 years.......that this year.......I didn't even buy one single gift......NOT ONE. I didn't get out a tree......hang a light....the ONLY thing I did was send cards and atape them to the back of the door....THAT IS IS. I am not even cooking Christmas dinner. I DON"T CARE. and guess who decided today that we should be CHRISTMASY? I could have smacked the elf right off his head. I mean I FINALLY adjusted to HIS moods and now he is SCROOGE reformed? DEAR GOD help him. I'm going to beat him with my Christmas Past. But okay. He has SAD.......and I got sadder...so he got Glad. Don't care if it came in a trash bag.....it's here. I don't have to celebrate all by myself......and MAYBE.......MAYBE that's a little of what is up with tony.....????? Every year with someone that LOVES christmas who has to be with someone that is "BAH HUMBUG" is more stressful that you can imagine. I'm not sticking up for him.......it's just really hard to be joyful when you have a christmas boat anchor on your three ships a sailing. K? k. </p><p></p><p>Try doing something for yourself. SOemthing that makes YOU happy. Doens't haev to cost a nickel. Just find something that makes you happy. And as far as any of your kids coming here to the DA? You know the door is ALWAYS open. Sorry just saw the text. Specially if its my baby. Or my Big Bear. Either way......if they can face me, and five pit bulls? C'mone. lol. </p><p></p><p>Hugs & Love</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 570285, member: 4964"] Well.......I'm not the Sugar Plum Fairy.....Possibly the Snow Queen....(looks outside the bleek first day of Winter) nooooooooope (pops the p) I think I'm more like the Rake the yard with the Husquvarna and a Dull Blade Queen. (nods a yes) Yeah but that wasn't in the Nutcracker. No one that I can remember comes careening across the stage, sputtering wind and a 50/50 mix of gas and....(thinks a minute no......that's DEFINITELY THE weed eater.....(says it like RAIN MAN.....DEFINITELY) the weed eater.......but no one comes barreling across the stage in the Nutcracker on an Orange Tractor mulching leaves So I have to either be the Snow Flake Queen or the SHug Plum Fairy. Since We in the SOuf? I'm pickin SHug Plum Fairy. Nary a drop of snow to be found. Too bad......I would have made a dang doodle of an Ice Queen. I have long.......LONNNNNNNNg said that you and Tony seem to go from one disaster to another. I lived like that for years and years.....and years. ANd I watch now as other people go like that and I think......There but for the grace of a buttload of therapy......Go I. And I say that earnestly and Honestly because I still have my ups and downs and LORD KNOWS I'm quirky.....(really Star?) But the things that YOU tolerate in YOUR life Janet? (long exhale) I often wonder.....WHY. And it's not that I would just ask YOU that. Some days I'd ask Tony that too. It seemed like both of you were () close to having life to yourselfs when Cory moved out, and Billy had a girlfriend. and then BUCK showed up and rocked your word, Keyana moved out.....and if you think about it....You guys have ONE bloody crisis after another, after another after another ......and there is NEVER any recovery time where the TWO of you.......PATCH things up or make up or HUG or have PRIVATE time.......or recoup. And by the time either of you think about it? Its been YEARs. And years. I'm not an expert....far from it.....But I know at one time you two loved each other more fiercely than any other couple I've met in a long time. Did you BOTH forget that? Or did so many things just keep happening and happening that the bridge broke and now your on opposite sides of the town.....with a rage running through the middle of both of your lives....???? I can't answer that. But it almost seems like he's bound and determined to help buck like you help the kids. Where did your GIVE and TAKE go? It's there......it's just on vacation for BOTH of you....it's not just him. And his back is miserable, his teeth are miserable.....and he still works. And you don't feel well, and you battle MAJOR depression every day .......and neither of you seem to remember that about the other...and give each other the credit for SURVIVING HELL on earth with CORY, and LIFE, and Gosh knows what else. You two are tough. Okay so your room is a mess......and you feel like (pftffffffffff) COMPROMISE......Take a bag a day.....and sit for 30 minutes and fill it......and take it outside. ONE BAG......it shows him you're trying. ANd I have no doubt Christmas time is a hard time of year. I've lived with EEyore for so many 13 years.......that this year.......I didn't even buy one single gift......NOT ONE. I didn't get out a tree......hang a light....the ONLY thing I did was send cards and atape them to the back of the door....THAT IS IS. I am not even cooking Christmas dinner. I DON"T CARE. and guess who decided today that we should be CHRISTMASY? I could have smacked the elf right off his head. I mean I FINALLY adjusted to HIS moods and now he is SCROOGE reformed? DEAR GOD help him. I'm going to beat him with my Christmas Past. But okay. He has SAD.......and I got sadder...so he got Glad. Don't care if it came in a trash bag.....it's here. I don't have to celebrate all by myself......and MAYBE.......MAYBE that's a little of what is up with tony.....????? Every year with someone that LOVES christmas who has to be with someone that is "BAH HUMBUG" is more stressful that you can imagine. I'm not sticking up for him.......it's just really hard to be joyful when you have a christmas boat anchor on your three ships a sailing. K? k. Try doing something for yourself. SOemthing that makes YOU happy. Doens't haev to cost a nickel. Just find something that makes you happy. And as far as any of your kids coming here to the DA? You know the door is ALWAYS open. Sorry just saw the text. Specially if its my baby. Or my Big Bear. Either way......if they can face me, and five pit bulls? C'mone. lol. Hugs & Love [/QUOTE]
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