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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 406135" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>i'm online right now finding a gym/yoga place i can register for. i'm using up most of our funds on difficult child, and easy child yet gotta get some in there for me. yes husband is feeling unappreciated as of late, like an atm machine. so i'm trying to make time for him, yet he does have to grow up a bit he is immature i'm the first to admit.</p><p> </p><p>he's a mix up. he's the guy who will kill himself to help you, stepkids, etc. yet at the sametime he's the same guy who will drive you totally insane with-this one particular issue. it's a toss up with-him. he just left for therapy that he's been going to since i left for portland. so far it isnt' helping lol.</p><p> </p><p>it's true in portland i found my inner me. it was great, and hard wasnt' easy doing it. yet anything worth it is hardly ever easy. than i returned and i'm getting beat up literally by my wonderful family. yet we all knew it would happen. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p> </p><p>i think i need to model how i'm taking care of me. i never have. so past week i've taken two nights where i said to husband tonight i'm sleeping no movies or anything else <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> i'm taking care of me and getting sleep i need. than also with-difficult child and easy child i'm cutting the craziness when they begin to spiral i simply walk away and close my door put music on etc. their like what?? again taking care of me.</p><p> </p><p>honestly i've done it backwards for years, always put everyone else first and me somewhere in the bottom pile. now i'm slowly switching it up and everyone's like huh...?</p><p> </p><p>i'm even looking on line to take classes towards my bachelor's degree to complete it. i want a life desperately lol..... i think back to when i had a job, lunches out with-friends, etc. it was hard to juggle yet wow it was nice in it's own regard. </p><p> </p><p>we all know the drill we get sooo caught up in our difficult child's, easy child's, and life we forget about us. i got some sleep, woke up today and was like no i want junk too lol. alot of it. we should all make time for us somehow to fill our own cups up, right? i mean i don't think any of us are coming back for another go around</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 406135, member: 4514"] i'm online right now finding a gym/yoga place i can register for. i'm using up most of our funds on difficult child, and easy child yet gotta get some in there for me. yes husband is feeling unappreciated as of late, like an atm machine. so i'm trying to make time for him, yet he does have to grow up a bit he is immature i'm the first to admit. he's a mix up. he's the guy who will kill himself to help you, stepkids, etc. yet at the sametime he's the same guy who will drive you totally insane with-this one particular issue. it's a toss up with-him. he just left for therapy that he's been going to since i left for portland. so far it isnt' helping lol. it's true in portland i found my inner me. it was great, and hard wasnt' easy doing it. yet anything worth it is hardly ever easy. than i returned and i'm getting beat up literally by my wonderful family. yet we all knew it would happen. :) i think i need to model how i'm taking care of me. i never have. so past week i've taken two nights where i said to husband tonight i'm sleeping no movies or anything else :) i'm taking care of me and getting sleep i need. than also with-difficult child and easy child i'm cutting the craziness when they begin to spiral i simply walk away and close my door put music on etc. their like what?? again taking care of me. honestly i've done it backwards for years, always put everyone else first and me somewhere in the bottom pile. now i'm slowly switching it up and everyone's like huh...? i'm even looking on line to take classes towards my bachelor's degree to complete it. i want a life desperately lol..... i think back to when i had a job, lunches out with-friends, etc. it was hard to juggle yet wow it was nice in it's own regard. we all know the drill we get sooo caught up in our difficult child's, easy child's, and life we forget about us. i got some sleep, woke up today and was like no i want junk too lol. alot of it. we should all make time for us somehow to fill our own cups up, right? i mean i don't think any of us are coming back for another go around [/QUOTE]
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