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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 406202" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>lol steely i was weak laughing when i read that?! <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p> </p><p>it's all good, yet let's be honest every night?? i wouldn't be able to walk... it's more than that. i'Tourette's Syndrome his only source of ooh she loves me. this i believe and yea i'm playing therapist again comes from his ex wife with whom left him after 18 years because she turned gay. that's his "deeper" issue at hand. he protects that bigtime won't admit it's there yet i'm too smart and it's too logical to miss.</p><p> </p><p>he cooked tonight, did dishes like he always does on night off which is great. now we'll do board game with-the little ones unfortunately easy child wont' join shocker.</p><p> </p><p>as far as that goes Marg i already asked him today... ahh great minds. the therapists' answer was Not Yet to me. hmmmm yea husband's cover will be blown when i walk in, the therapist will be like oh once i open my mouth.</p><p> </p><p> </p><p>thing with-it is this. life happens and takes over at times he has zero flexibility for that and needs to understand that there are going to be times that it'll have to wait. it's usually not a difficult child issue at all. it's like me when she's been hospitalized i've noticed alot, the push for it or when i'm sick he'll try. stuff like that. to me that's just inconsiderate on his part.</p><p> </p><p>it's like ok you have a leg falling off yet can you come on over here with me?? ummm no!!!!</p><p> </p><p>that's when it's a' problem. gotta be more to a relationship than that. it's based on friendship trust all that good junk. ahhh the joys of marriage. my first husband didn't wanna do it ever he was too busy switching the light switches on and off (big Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) issues) and being manic on certain nights, this guy doesn't sleep much and wants it all the time!!! LOL</p><p> </p><p>where oh where lies my happy medium man? <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p> </p><p>oh by the way MWM -- i went and bought a new collar today, it goes over his nose and than his head. we tried that to enable me to walk the wild beat. guess what it's working. took while to get him adjusted to it and he'll fight it a bit but huge difference. which means i can re adjust him to being walked now and he'll get exercise which should cut down on inside chaotic behaviors.</p><p> </p><p>step by step ...... we'll see. husband was like no way i don't wanna drop him at the shelter. he felt bad. i can't get ok with it either. and it's not easy child's job to train him. he's 100lb. and rough. yea she messed up not walking him, yet he's too much dog for her. i'm making difficult child walk the puppy now that she's home and eating i'll deal with-the big guy.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 406202, member: 4514"] lol steely i was weak laughing when i read that?! :) it's all good, yet let's be honest every night?? i wouldn't be able to walk... it's more than that. i'Tourette's Syndrome his only source of ooh she loves me. this i believe and yea i'm playing therapist again comes from his ex wife with whom left him after 18 years because she turned gay. that's his "deeper" issue at hand. he protects that bigtime won't admit it's there yet i'm too smart and it's too logical to miss. he cooked tonight, did dishes like he always does on night off which is great. now we'll do board game with-the little ones unfortunately easy child wont' join shocker. as far as that goes Marg i already asked him today... ahh great minds. the therapists' answer was Not Yet to me. hmmmm yea husband's cover will be blown when i walk in, the therapist will be like oh once i open my mouth. thing with-it is this. life happens and takes over at times he has zero flexibility for that and needs to understand that there are going to be times that it'll have to wait. it's usually not a difficult child issue at all. it's like me when she's been hospitalized i've noticed alot, the push for it or when i'm sick he'll try. stuff like that. to me that's just inconsiderate on his part. it's like ok you have a leg falling off yet can you come on over here with me?? ummm no!!!! that's when it's a' problem. gotta be more to a relationship than that. it's based on friendship trust all that good junk. ahhh the joys of marriage. my first husband didn't wanna do it ever he was too busy switching the light switches on and off (big Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) issues) and being manic on certain nights, this guy doesn't sleep much and wants it all the time!!! LOL where oh where lies my happy medium man? :) oh by the way MWM -- i went and bought a new collar today, it goes over his nose and than his head. we tried that to enable me to walk the wild beat. guess what it's working. took while to get him adjusted to it and he'll fight it a bit but huge difference. which means i can re adjust him to being walked now and he'll get exercise which should cut down on inside chaotic behaviors. step by step ...... we'll see. husband was like no way i don't wanna drop him at the shelter. he felt bad. i can't get ok with it either. and it's not easy child's job to train him. he's 100lb. and rough. yea she messed up not walking him, yet he's too much dog for her. i'm making difficult child walk the puppy now that she's home and eating i'll deal with-the big guy. [/QUOTE]
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