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<blockquote data-quote="christine5555" data-source="post: 611688" data-attributes="member: 17077"><p>Putting things into compartments, great idea. I find I am working up to that but wow is it exhausting on the brain. Practice helps I'm sure or as your therapist says Kathy, time.. In a daze, I've gone to 3 Al-Anon meetings and found them so structured and felt empty afterwards. There isn't a Nar-Anon in my city, would have to drive quite a ways to get to one. Will def look into families anonymous, thanks. </p><p>Thanks for relating with me Midwest and your words of encouragement. I go along doing pretty good I think but like tonight, there difficult child is standing at our door! Wanting to know if there is any left over money from his house sale (I was power of attorney of his finances) I stupidly told the truth and said there is 300 but there are tail ends of a few bills to come in still. We ended up arguing, he saying I'm keeping 'his' money from him as I said I'm not giving him cash. Then said of so many things we paid for. I felt so badly saying that. He called shortly afterwards in a calm manner asking if I could help him with his truck, that he'd ordered the part. I asked how much for the part as eariler I had said 150 is all that can go for the truck as rest is for bills. He said less than 100 so I'm going tomorrow to meet him at part store to pay cash for. I told him I didn't handle it well at my house earlier. Omg, this is so frickin hard.. Try to be tough but want to help him any and every way I can. He's not shaven for days I saw today, nor has his hair viewed a comb near it... 31 yrs old following his deceased father's footsteps. Going on trip tomorrow so am hoping to get a bit of an escape. </p><p>Thanks all you lovely people for helping me, much appreciated!! Xx</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="christine5555, post: 611688, member: 17077"] Putting things into compartments, great idea. I find I am working up to that but wow is it exhausting on the brain. Practice helps I'm sure or as your therapist says Kathy, time.. In a daze, I've gone to 3 Al-Anon meetings and found them so structured and felt empty afterwards. There isn't a Nar-Anon in my city, would have to drive quite a ways to get to one. Will def look into families anonymous, thanks. Thanks for relating with me Midwest and your words of encouragement. I go along doing pretty good I think but like tonight, there difficult child is standing at our door! Wanting to know if there is any left over money from his house sale (I was power of attorney of his finances) I stupidly told the truth and said there is 300 but there are tail ends of a few bills to come in still. We ended up arguing, he saying I'm keeping 'his' money from him as I said I'm not giving him cash. Then said of so many things we paid for. I felt so badly saying that. He called shortly afterwards in a calm manner asking if I could help him with his truck, that he'd ordered the part. I asked how much for the part as eariler I had said 150 is all that can go for the truck as rest is for bills. He said less than 100 so I'm going tomorrow to meet him at part store to pay cash for. I told him I didn't handle it well at my house earlier. Omg, this is so frickin hard.. Try to be tough but want to help him any and every way I can. He's not shaven for days I saw today, nor has his hair viewed a comb near it... 31 yrs old following his deceased father's footsteps. Going on trip tomorrow so am hoping to get a bit of an escape. Thanks all you lovely people for helping me, much appreciated!! Xx [/QUOTE]
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