Hi and welcome,
I live in Columbia. I think living here due to the bevy of doctor care available is about the only reason that kept us here for so many years. Some services and doctors have been wonderful; others were sub-par, and that would be everything from (if you will pardon the expression soup to nuts). I'm not sure that I'm going to be of much help, and not sure that it's allowed but Richland Memorial Hospital has several neuropsychologists that are very competent and caring. I can't name names because it's been over fifteen years, but the testing they did on Dude was very thorough, and so intense to the point that they ruled out via CT scans anything organic vs behavioral and set us on a path towards one of the best psychologists (again in my humble opinion) that I've ever had the pleasure of working with whom I've sent many, many people to over the years; none of which ever came back to me and said "Star, he was not for us." Moreover I think that the key to learning and getting on the right path to wellness in any mental health situation is learning HOW to communicate through effective communication (which is a learned behavior not natural) and thorugh psycho therapy ALL family members attend for YEARS....not months, YEARS. If not? I think to say "It's you not ME'..is an effort in vain and you may as well open your front door, write a check or toss cash out in the yard each week and go to square one each day of the week you start your week on.
Our son is among one of the most difficult humans ever to grace the planet. To see our psychiatrist learn that he is now.....working, paying rent, actually paying his fines for tickets, in jail but then out and being responsible? The man clutched his heart. (so do I quite often......probably should have gotten and AED for the house but at times without therapy I think I'm down as DNR) anyway.......the thing MY SON told us was that out of all of the places we sent him and put him and all the medications and ALL the things we FOUND OUT (ie psychotherapy) the TALK thearpy worked the best. And to find a good one of those///YOU have to believe in the person you are sitting across from and TRUST them......and SEE results in your own home and life. and STRESS levels may go up......but come down and you have to be willing to PUT THE KID......out and LISTEN and ...well it comes and ebbs and flows......but you have to not try to put YOUR thoughts into a cookie cutter and say well yes but MY idea....nope.....you have to be willing to follow the rules, and for once not bend them to suit you.
I'll help you however I can.......but if you want to know if one is better than another? I'm sure there may be ......Like I said just do your homework......see whose saying what-----who is recommended. (google the doctor) and go from there. You're already stressed out - why stress yourself further to drive 2 hours......when the same info.....(not organic vs organic) is going to be obtained 20 minutes away???? They're not Godz they're doctors and they're going to read test results about the same no matter where you go. Find a good psychiatrist.....a GREAT psychiatrist ------one that works M-Sunday.......and see if you like him/her.....and get the whole family involved. We went 3x a week for years.......Family day, SON day.....and ME day (yeah for me). Because if Momma aint happy7 - TRUST ME......NO BODY happy. NO BOOOOOOOOODY.
Hugs
STar