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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 174153" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>Well, she called me back and it seems the crying spell stopped as quickly as it started. So she wants to chalk it up to hormones. Maybe it is, but I know her state of mind before she got pregnant. </p><p> </p><p></p><p> </p><p>Abbey, the girl lives a half a block away from me down the alley. (one street over) lol We're on the phone with each other daily, and we see each other just as often. We've become very very close since she's been an adult.</p><p> </p><p>I know how hard a miscarriage is. been there done that myself. And I know how hard the following pregnancy can be. I had a miscarriage before easy child. Actually the month before I conceived easy child. And I was a wreck for the first trimester. But no where near where she's at. </p><p> </p><p>I do know she is coming close to the time that she lost the last baby. And it's not helping that the due dates are almost exactly the same. (a day apart) Maybe with this approaching it's just coming to a head. I keeping hoping (and praying) once she gets past the point where the other baby passed, she'll be able to breathe with some relief that this pregnancy is fine and feel some joy again.</p><p> </p><p>easy child has as strong a maternal instinct as I do. (profound) Right now, though, it seems to almost be working against her.</p><p> </p><p>I did get her to agree to speak with my psychiatrist if this continues. She simply can't go on an emotional wreck. I can only hope she has the sense to stick to that agreement.</p><p> </p><p>Heather, yes, if I told her I believe she is where Nichole was at when she was 15 she would take me seriously. I'm hesitant to tell her that, though, because she has this major hang up about disappointing me. Where it comes from I dunno as the kid has never disappointed me a day in her life. But with the way she feels about that, I won't tell her until I feel I have no other choice.</p><p> </p><p>sister in law means well. And we have talked. They're having trouble because he wanted her to back off trying to get pregnant because of the pain it was putting her through month after month. He adores Darrin, and in his mind if he could save the woman he loves some pain by talking her out of another baby, then Darrin would be enough for him. Only it backfired, due to easy child's maternal instincts. (men just don't understand no matter how hard they try) They are only now beginning to be honest with each other and are finally talking. But sister in law just doesn't know what to do when easy child is like this, and he has a natural gift for putting his foot into his mouth. Poor kid.</p><p> </p><p>easy child knows she can pour her heart out to me anytime, and takes me up on it. I just worry I'm not the right person for her to be talking to.</p><p> </p><p>Plus I worry that if (God forbid) she miscarries again for whatever reason, easy child isn't going to fall over that edge, she's going to dive over it. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 174153, member: 84"] Well, she called me back and it seems the crying spell stopped as quickly as it started. So she wants to chalk it up to hormones. Maybe it is, but I know her state of mind before she got pregnant. Abbey, the girl lives a half a block away from me down the alley. (one street over) lol We're on the phone with each other daily, and we see each other just as often. We've become very very close since she's been an adult. I know how hard a miscarriage is. been there done that myself. And I know how hard the following pregnancy can be. I had a miscarriage before easy child. Actually the month before I conceived easy child. And I was a wreck for the first trimester. But no where near where she's at. I do know she is coming close to the time that she lost the last baby. And it's not helping that the due dates are almost exactly the same. (a day apart) Maybe with this approaching it's just coming to a head. I keeping hoping (and praying) once she gets past the point where the other baby passed, she'll be able to breathe with some relief that this pregnancy is fine and feel some joy again. easy child has as strong a maternal instinct as I do. (profound) Right now, though, it seems to almost be working against her. I did get her to agree to speak with my psychiatrist if this continues. She simply can't go on an emotional wreck. I can only hope she has the sense to stick to that agreement. Heather, yes, if I told her I believe she is where Nichole was at when she was 15 she would take me seriously. I'm hesitant to tell her that, though, because she has this major hang up about disappointing me. Where it comes from I dunno as the kid has never disappointed me a day in her life. But with the way she feels about that, I won't tell her until I feel I have no other choice. sister in law means well. And we have talked. They're having trouble because he wanted her to back off trying to get pregnant because of the pain it was putting her through month after month. He adores Darrin, and in his mind if he could save the woman he loves some pain by talking her out of another baby, then Darrin would be enough for him. Only it backfired, due to easy child's maternal instincts. (men just don't understand no matter how hard they try) They are only now beginning to be honest with each other and are finally talking. But sister in law just doesn't know what to do when easy child is like this, and he has a natural gift for putting his foot into his mouth. Poor kid. easy child knows she can pour her heart out to me anytime, and takes me up on it. I just worry I'm not the right person for her to be talking to. Plus I worry that if (God forbid) she miscarries again for whatever reason, easy child isn't going to fall over that edge, she's going to dive over it. :( [/QUOTE]
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