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<blockquote data-quote="Shari" data-source="post: 422405" data-attributes="member: 1848"><p>I just wanted you to know I understand. Even tho my difficult child made it out of difficult child-dom...it didn't look good when he left. </p><p></p><p>I dont know if this will help you or not. It does me...Think back a year or two. Heck, five. Do you remember panicking about something that, at the time, seemed earth shattering? Sometimes you do, sometimes you don't. But either way, today, for the most part, you have a new set of problems that are consuming your mind. And this time next year, we'll have a new set of things to worry about, and so on and so forth. Yeah, maybe the overall issues of difficult child-dom don't change, but the crisis of the day does. We survive, we go on, we face the next one.</p><p></p><p>Its so hard. But you have to find peace in yourself to let her live with her choices. At 18, 28, or 48.</p><p></p><p>Another thing that helped me was a little book called the 4 Agreements, by Don Miguel Ruiz. Its a strange little book, but it hit home with me. Stop by Barnes and Noble and sit on the floor and check it out. Maybe it will help, maybe it won't. </p><p></p><p>Hugs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Shari, post: 422405, member: 1848"] I just wanted you to know I understand. Even tho my difficult child made it out of difficult child-dom...it didn't look good when he left. I dont know if this will help you or not. It does me...Think back a year or two. Heck, five. Do you remember panicking about something that, at the time, seemed earth shattering? Sometimes you do, sometimes you don't. But either way, today, for the most part, you have a new set of problems that are consuming your mind. And this time next year, we'll have a new set of things to worry about, and so on and so forth. Yeah, maybe the overall issues of difficult child-dom don't change, but the crisis of the day does. We survive, we go on, we face the next one. Its so hard. But you have to find peace in yourself to let her live with her choices. At 18, 28, or 48. Another thing that helped me was a little book called the 4 Agreements, by Don Miguel Ruiz. Its a strange little book, but it hit home with me. Stop by Barnes and Noble and sit on the floor and check it out. Maybe it will help, maybe it won't. Hugs. [/QUOTE]
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