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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 342243" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>Oh Renee...Im so very sorry he is hurting you this way!</p><p></p><p>I noticed one thing that stood out to me in your post. You said he said they are going to be invited. That doesnt mean they have accepted. Maybe they are as irritated with you as you are with them and dont want to be there if you are there so they wont go if they know YOU will be there! So state you WILL be there first! Maybe there is a tad bit of hope there.</p><p></p><p>On a slightly different thing. Something similar almost happened to me when Jamie almost got married the first time. Thats a mouthful isnt it? LOL.</p><p></p><p>Jamie seems to have an addiction to getting married! </p><p></p><p>He had this first girlfriend right before he was going into the Marines and she talked him into getting engaged. Bad move of course. Well, her parents tossed her out and I, of course, let her move in here. (Let the chorus of groans occur now!) She lived here with us for almost 9 months! </p><p></p><p>The whole time Jamie was in boot, she was cheating on him. I finally caught her because she was using my cellphone, Billy's and my computer and going out all the time. Well when I came home from a weekend out (Mothers day of all days!) I found a saved file of her having oral sex with some guy on my computer! This was only 3 weeks before Jamie was due to get out of boot! Billy and I started scouring our phones and other computers to see what else we could find. She had called all kinds of places. Had herself signed up for dating websites, had personal pages...all kinds of things.</p><p></p><p>We copied them and saved them.</p><p></p><p>When Jamie got home we had to tell him. I couldnt let him marry her knowing what I knew. She tried to tell him I had faked it and was trying to set her up. I told him he knew me better than that. </p><p></p><p>At the end, I told him that I would not go to his wedding and he would not be allowed to bring her to my house if he married her. I ended up changing my mind about going to the wedding but I kept my word about the fact that she would never step foot in my house if he married her. They would be on their own and I would just forget I had a son. I meant it. </p><p></p><p>We got to the wedding chapel and he couldnt go through with the wedding. Even her father told him it was the right thing to do...lol. I was never so glad to put that boy in a car! We raced home, threw him, Cory and Tony in the car and sent them to upstate SC to visit relatives until his leave was up. </p><p></p><p>I stayed home and waited for her to arrive so I could tell her to get her koi and never step foot in my yard again.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 342243, member: 1514"] Oh Renee...Im so very sorry he is hurting you this way! I noticed one thing that stood out to me in your post. You said he said they are going to be invited. That doesnt mean they have accepted. Maybe they are as irritated with you as you are with them and dont want to be there if you are there so they wont go if they know YOU will be there! So state you WILL be there first! Maybe there is a tad bit of hope there. On a slightly different thing. Something similar almost happened to me when Jamie almost got married the first time. Thats a mouthful isnt it? LOL. Jamie seems to have an addiction to getting married! He had this first girlfriend right before he was going into the Marines and she talked him into getting engaged. Bad move of course. Well, her parents tossed her out and I, of course, let her move in here. (Let the chorus of groans occur now!) She lived here with us for almost 9 months! The whole time Jamie was in boot, she was cheating on him. I finally caught her because she was using my cellphone, Billy's and my computer and going out all the time. Well when I came home from a weekend out (Mothers day of all days!) I found a saved file of her having oral sex with some guy on my computer! This was only 3 weeks before Jamie was due to get out of boot! Billy and I started scouring our phones and other computers to see what else we could find. She had called all kinds of places. Had herself signed up for dating websites, had personal pages...all kinds of things. We copied them and saved them. When Jamie got home we had to tell him. I couldnt let him marry her knowing what I knew. She tried to tell him I had faked it and was trying to set her up. I told him he knew me better than that. At the end, I told him that I would not go to his wedding and he would not be allowed to bring her to my house if he married her. I ended up changing my mind about going to the wedding but I kept my word about the fact that she would never step foot in my house if he married her. They would be on their own and I would just forget I had a son. I meant it. We got to the wedding chapel and he couldnt go through with the wedding. Even her father told him it was the right thing to do...lol. I was never so glad to put that boy in a car! We raced home, threw him, Cory and Tony in the car and sent them to upstate SC to visit relatives until his leave was up. I stayed home and waited for her to arrive so I could tell her to get her koi and never step foot in my yard again. [/QUOTE]
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