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<blockquote data-quote="LittleDudesMom" data-source="post: 538418" data-attributes="member: 805"><p><span style="font-family: 'comic sans ms'"><span style="font-size: 12px">TM,</span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'comic sans ms'"><span style="font-size: 12px"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'comic sans ms'"><span style="font-size: 12px">some folks handle these times with grace and dignity, some close in on themselves, some cherish the time they have with their loved one, and others just can't deal (often it's wrapped up with guilt, unresolved issues, fear, etc.).</span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'comic sans ms'"><span style="font-size: 12px"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'comic sans ms'"><span style="font-size: 12px">I know you are a praying woman -- my philosophy is to pray for those who can't seem to navigate...</span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'comic sans ms'"><span style="font-size: 12px"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'comic sans ms'"><span style="font-size: 12px">I don't think talking to him right now is going to be useful - he appears to be very wrapped up in, and this probably sounds odd, himself; not wrapped up with his mom. Keep yourself healthy, avoid conflict, protect ducky from this side of her dad, and keep on plugging - it's what we do best. </span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'comic sans ms'"><span style="font-size: 12px"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'comic sans ms'"><span style="font-size: 12px">Once husband stops focusing on himself - and that could be before mom passes or after - then you can focus back on his attitude and your disappointment with how he handled himself. There are going to be a lot more losses in our lives as we move forward in age - perhaps he can get a better perspective on the fact that life is fleeting and glorious but we make way for those that come after by leaving our physical world for a better spiritual place. Faith is important, in my opinion. There is no way around the end. </span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'comic sans ms'"><span style="font-size: 12px"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'comic sans ms'"><span style="font-size: 12px">Hugs and love,</span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'comic sans ms'"><span style="font-size: 12px">Sharon</span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="LittleDudesMom, post: 538418, member: 805"] [FONT=comic sans ms][SIZE=3]TM, some folks handle these times with grace and dignity, some close in on themselves, some cherish the time they have with their loved one, and others just can't deal (often it's wrapped up with guilt, unresolved issues, fear, etc.). I know you are a praying woman -- my philosophy is to pray for those who can't seem to navigate... I don't think talking to him right now is going to be useful - he appears to be very wrapped up in, and this probably sounds odd, himself; not wrapped up with his mom. Keep yourself healthy, avoid conflict, protect ducky from this side of her dad, and keep on plugging - it's what we do best. Once husband stops focusing on himself - and that could be before mom passes or after - then you can focus back on his attitude and your disappointment with how he handled himself. There are going to be a lot more losses in our lives as we move forward in age - perhaps he can get a better perspective on the fact that life is fleeting and glorious but we make way for those that come after by leaving our physical world for a better spiritual place. Faith is important, in my opinion. There is no way around the end. Hugs and love, Sharon[/SIZE][/FONT] [/QUOTE]
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