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<blockquote data-quote="tiredmommy" data-source="post: 538425" data-attributes="member: 1722"><p>Thank you everyone. I've had a hard time finding the words to respond. husband and I had a major blowout on Sunday. He was being incredibly nasty and getting worse each passing day so I let him have it right back. I have my limits. He will not admit that his behavior has been less than stellar or that I am, basically, of any use at all. He's also playing games with Duckie's end of the year festivities and I will not engage in game-playing with a child's emotions (he won't commit on whether or not he can attend because he's so important at work), so I told Duckie to hand him the sheet with the dates/times/places and tell him the ball is now in his court. No more games; he shows up or he doesn't. And, he did start behaving more respectfully after I told him that I was going to treat him exactly the way he treats me whether his mother is dying or not. And I also reminded him of all the support I didn't get when each of my parents died, so he was a hypocrite if he labeled me unsupportive. And I am done. He decides how things will be between us because I will not be a whipping boy to anyone. He can be ****** off at cancer. I haven't killed his mother.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="tiredmommy, post: 538425, member: 1722"] Thank you everyone. I've had a hard time finding the words to respond. husband and I had a major blowout on Sunday. He was being incredibly nasty and getting worse each passing day so I let him have it right back. I have my limits. He will not admit that his behavior has been less than stellar or that I am, basically, of any use at all. He's also playing games with Duckie's end of the year festivities and I will not engage in game-playing with a child's emotions (he won't commit on whether or not he can attend because he's so important at work), so I told Duckie to hand him the sheet with the dates/times/places and tell him the ball is now in his court. No more games; he shows up or he doesn't. And, he did start behaving more respectfully after I told him that I was going to treat him exactly the way he treats me whether his mother is dying or not. And I also reminded him of all the support I didn't get when each of my parents died, so he was a hypocrite if he labeled me unsupportive. And I am done. He decides how things will be between us because I will not be a whipping boy to anyone. He can be ****** off at cancer. I haven't killed his mother. [/QUOTE]
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