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<blockquote data-quote="tiredmommy" data-source="post: 538781" data-attributes="member: 1722"><p><span style="font-size: 10px"><span style="color: #222222"><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #000000">S</span></span></span><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="color: #000000"><span style="font-size: 12px">tar~ My husband had very little personal experience withdeath when my parents died. He complained and moaned about my brother not beingin a financial position to assist with my father's final expenses. That's all Iheard for two weeks until husband's mother overheard him and blasted him. Mymother... that was particularly painful because he never thought of her assomeone worthy of his respect due to her mental health and addiction issues. Asa matter of fact, not one person in my husband's family offered theircondolences when she died, not even a card. She was less than a human-being tothem. I didn't play tit for tat with him, I just pointed out a huge discrepancyin his logic when he told me I was unsupportive when I have been assisting inthe care of, cooking for, cleaning of and shopping for his mother and others inhis family since January. And he's known how I felt about this since eachincident occured.</span></span></span></span></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 10px"><span style="color: #222222"><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="color: #000000"><span style="font-size: 12px"></span></span></span></span></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 10px"><span style="color: #222222"><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="color: #000000"><span style="font-size: 12px">And, my husband has a nasty habit of being passive aggressive when he is understress and he seems to think that I make a suitable target for all that passiveaggression. And when I didn't bite? He started his garbage with Duckie. An 11year old that is losing her grandmother. Who spent her birthday in a cancer hospital.Who made sacrifices for her father and grandmother these last six monthsbecause thats what families do, only to be told her orchestra concert, herchorus concert, her recital, her D.A.R.E ceremony, and her 5</span>[SUP]<span style="font-size: 10px">th</span>[/SUP]<span style="font-size: 12px"> Gradegraduation ceremony were really a huge inconvenience to him right now. He wantsto get nasty with me? Fine. It might hurt but I can take it. He wont do thatto Duckie and not get it thrown right back in his smug, condescending face.</span></span></span></span></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 10px"><span style="color: #222222"><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #000000"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'">Someone dying is not an excuse for being cruel to others. </span></span></span></span></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 10px"><span style="color: #222222"><span style="font-family: 'Verdana'"></span></span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="tiredmommy, post: 538781, member: 1722"] [COLOR=#222222][FONT="Verdana"][/FONT][/COLOR][SIZE=2][COLOR=#222222][FONT="Verdana"][FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000]S[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][FONT="Times New Roman"][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]tar~ My husband had very little personal experience withdeath when my parents died. He complained and moaned about my brother not beingin a financial position to assist with my father's final expenses. That's all Iheard for two weeks until husband's mother overheard him and blasted him. Mymother... that was particularly painful because he never thought of her assomeone worthy of his respect due to her mental health and addiction issues. Asa matter of fact, not one person in my husband's family offered theircondolences when she died, not even a card. She was less than a human-being tothem. I didn't play tit for tat with him, I just pointed out a huge discrepancyin his logic when he told me I was unsupportive when I have been assisting inthe care of, cooking for, cleaning of and shopping for his mother and others inhis family since January. And he's known how I felt about this since eachincident occured. And, my husband has a nasty habit of being passive aggressive when he is understress and he seems to think that I make a suitable target for all that passiveaggression. And when I didn't bite? He started his garbage with Duckie. An 11year old that is losing her grandmother. Who spent her birthday in a cancer hospital.Who made sacrifices for her father and grandmother these last six monthsbecause thats what families do, only to be told her orchestra concert, herchorus concert, her recital, her D.A.R.E ceremony, and her 5[/SIZE][SUP][SIZE=2]th[/SIZE][/SUP][SIZE=3] Gradegraduation ceremony were really a huge inconvenience to him right now. He wantsto get nasty with me? Fine. It might hurt but I can take it. He wont do thatto Duckie and not get it thrown right back in his smug, condescending face.[/SIZE][/COLOR][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000][FONT="Times New Roman"]Someone dying is not an excuse for being cruel to others. [/FONT][FONT="Times New Roman"][/FONT][/COLOR][/SIZE] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][/FONT][/COLOR][/SIZE] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [/QUOTE]
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