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<blockquote data-quote="Childofmine" data-source="post: 618747" data-attributes="member: 17542"><p>Thanks to all of you...I agree with everything you are saying. I wish I didn't feel mean when I do this, but I am willing to just feel mean if that is what it takes. </p><p></p><p>I am going to write him a letter and mail it (keeping it short as I have a tendency to throw a lot of words at things as you know on this site, lol). </p><p></p><p>I'm basically saying don't come here if/when you get out of jail, and once you're settled let me know and I'll get your clothes to you.</p><p></p><p>what you do is your responsibility, completely. </p><p></p><p>I love you but I don't want to see you right now so please respect my wishes. I wish you the best.</p><p></p><p>The draft of the letter feels very bare, distant and sterile. I guess it is. </p><p></p><p>I used to preach a lot in my letters about "you can do this" etc. I've stopped that. I also used to talk about God and say I am praying for you. I am, but I have stopped that too.</p><p></p><p>I'm trying to say a lot less and do a lot less than ever before. </p><p></p><p>Just getting out of the way. And man, this is so hard. </p><p></p><p>Thanks to you all. This is a great support and I value the straight talk.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Childofmine, post: 618747, member: 17542"] Thanks to all of you...I agree with everything you are saying. I wish I didn't feel mean when I do this, but I am willing to just feel mean if that is what it takes. I am going to write him a letter and mail it (keeping it short as I have a tendency to throw a lot of words at things as you know on this site, lol). I'm basically saying don't come here if/when you get out of jail, and once you're settled let me know and I'll get your clothes to you. what you do is your responsibility, completely. I love you but I don't want to see you right now so please respect my wishes. I wish you the best. The draft of the letter feels very bare, distant and sterile. I guess it is. I used to preach a lot in my letters about "you can do this" etc. I've stopped that. I also used to talk about God and say I am praying for you. I am, but I have stopped that too. I'm trying to say a lot less and do a lot less than ever before. Just getting out of the way. And man, this is so hard. Thanks to you all. This is a great support and I value the straight talk. [/QUOTE]
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