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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 618789" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I don't like letters. My difficult child kept all of mine, scanned them into his computer, and uses my written words against me. In the end, do letters really have any impact?</p><p>I guess I have decided that I don't have to over-explain and if I have something to tell a difficult child, I tell them. I'm learning that concise, to-the-point, unemotional speech is my own personal best way of communicating with an unstable adult (either my child or a different relative or anyone). </p><p>My difficult child who I used to write letters to calls me "crazy" for having written them and constantly points out the inconsistencies of them and has shown his spouse all of them, convincing her that my crazy letters are proof that I'm crazy.</p><p>Ugh. I'm not in favor of writing down anything.</p><p>But this is all personal choice and we all have different types of difficult children.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 618789, member: 1550"] I don't like letters. My difficult child kept all of mine, scanned them into his computer, and uses my written words against me. In the end, do letters really have any impact? I guess I have decided that I don't have to over-explain and if I have something to tell a difficult child, I tell them. I'm learning that concise, to-the-point, unemotional speech is my own personal best way of communicating with an unstable adult (either my child or a different relative or anyone). My difficult child who I used to write letters to calls me "crazy" for having written them and constantly points out the inconsistencies of them and has shown his spouse all of them, convincing her that my crazy letters are proof that I'm crazy. Ugh. I'm not in favor of writing down anything. But this is all personal choice and we all have different types of difficult children. [/QUOTE]
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