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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 352942" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>Thank you everyone, the prayers are both needed and greatly appreciated.</p><p></p><p>gvc mom thanks for that info, it is good to know and may come in handy in the near future. I'll use easy child as my "professional" if necessary. I'm so hoping it won't come to an involuntary admit. She is so terrified of that on a normal basis that I'd rather not use it unless she just plain forces us to. I'd rather not feed into any paranoia that may be going on. </p><p></p><p>easy child has volunteered to take Aubrey for the weekend to get her out of the situation. At this point I don't know if exbf plans to take her up on it. I haven't heard from anyone this morning. Not sure if that's good or bad. At this point in moments of clarity Nichole knows she needs help and her medications back. Exbf is doing his part by standing firm there is no chance of them getting back together if she doesn't do this. And last night I told her all she has to do is call the psychiatrist who helped me and chances were she'd have no waiting period (like county mental health) to get in to see him. He accepts the medical card and even does scale payments. His staff is excellent. If they think a patient is in crisis they'll do all they can to get them seen immediately. Nichole said she'd call him monday. Now whether she will or not remains to be seen.</p><p></p><p>I've been trying forever to convince exbf that when she is like she was last night he <em><strong>has</strong></em> to call the police for help. Because if they see she's a danger to self or others they will force an admit. Maybe he tried last night and that's why she broke his cell phone or he could've told her he was calling me. I'm having to be cautious because she believed I was trying to commit her during this long before her behavior warranted it. Drives me crazy because by the time exbf calls for help she's heading for a shift/mood thing and usually has passed out of the rage into something else which doesn't make her an immediate threat. </p><p></p><p>And I know from bff that if she is not considered an immediate threat, even the cops won't force her to go to the hospital. What <strong>should</strong> happen and what actually <strong>does</strong> happen sadly are often very different.<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /></p><p></p><p>Very worried about her. I hope exbf has sense enough to go out and get a new call phone today. Meanwhile, trying to study and waiting for the next shoe to drop while praying she can hold it together and makes that call on monday.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 352942, member: 84"] Thank you everyone, the prayers are both needed and greatly appreciated. gvc mom thanks for that info, it is good to know and may come in handy in the near future. I'll use easy child as my "professional" if necessary. I'm so hoping it won't come to an involuntary admit. She is so terrified of that on a normal basis that I'd rather not use it unless she just plain forces us to. I'd rather not feed into any paranoia that may be going on. easy child has volunteered to take Aubrey for the weekend to get her out of the situation. At this point I don't know if exbf plans to take her up on it. I haven't heard from anyone this morning. Not sure if that's good or bad. At this point in moments of clarity Nichole knows she needs help and her medications back. Exbf is doing his part by standing firm there is no chance of them getting back together if she doesn't do this. And last night I told her all she has to do is call the psychiatrist who helped me and chances were she'd have no waiting period (like county mental health) to get in to see him. He accepts the medical card and even does scale payments. His staff is excellent. If they think a patient is in crisis they'll do all they can to get them seen immediately. Nichole said she'd call him monday. Now whether she will or not remains to be seen. I've been trying forever to convince exbf that when she is like she was last night he [I][B]has[/B][/I] to call the police for help. Because if they see she's a danger to self or others they will force an admit. Maybe he tried last night and that's why she broke his cell phone or he could've told her he was calling me. I'm having to be cautious because she believed I was trying to commit her during this long before her behavior warranted it. Drives me crazy because by the time exbf calls for help she's heading for a shift/mood thing and usually has passed out of the rage into something else which doesn't make her an immediate threat. And I know from bff that if she is not considered an immediate threat, even the cops won't force her to go to the hospital. What [B]should[/B] happen and what actually [B]does[/B] happen sadly are often very different.:frowny: Very worried about her. I hope exbf has sense enough to go out and get a new call phone today. Meanwhile, trying to study and waiting for the next shoe to drop while praying she can hold it together and makes that call on monday. [/QUOTE]
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