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<blockquote data-quote="witzend" data-source="post: 600124" data-attributes="member: 99"><p>If you feel that you can live with disappointment one more time, this is also good advice. I hope that doesn't come across as dismissive. There just aren't any "cut and dyed" right answers for this. But before you offer, you and husband <em>must</em> be on the same page. Do you already see a therapist, or is there someone that you both feel comfortable with as an unbiased arbiter? I found that it helped for husband and I when we worked things out with a therapist beforehand because having been married for so long we were often willing to make allowances for the other's feelings about a "minor change". We were not as comfortable changing the deal in the middle with someone else involved. We <em>knew</em> we'd have to have a logical explanation rather than "I caved because it was easier at the time" or "I knew you would deal with it."</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="witzend, post: 600124, member: 99"] If you feel that you can live with disappointment one more time, this is also good advice. I hope that doesn't come across as dismissive. There just aren't any "cut and dyed" right answers for this. But before you offer, you and husband [I]must[/I] be on the same page. Do you already see a therapist, or is there someone that you both feel comfortable with as an unbiased arbiter? I found that it helped for husband and I when we worked things out with a therapist beforehand because having been married for so long we were often willing to make allowances for the other's feelings about a "minor change". We were not as comfortable changing the deal in the middle with someone else involved. We [I]knew[/I] we'd have to have a logical explanation rather than "I caved because it was easier at the time" or "I knew you would deal with it." [/QUOTE]
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