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<blockquote data-quote="compassion" data-source="post: 241651" data-attributes="member: 6393"><p>Sending strenth but I also second ask for help form husband. I am so much less resentful since I am doing that more. I was the heavy for years and years and he was cool becasue I enforced all limits. Sunday he told difficult child she could not currently live here becasue of the violent behaiovr/threats. For the frist time he is the meanie and she will nto talk to him but wants to talk to me. I had him call the cops to taransport her to treatment yeaterday. He reused to turn the car aorund on the wy to the hospital. Plus , getting support from this group, therapist, psychiatrist, and Al-Anon is helping so much. I took so much blame and guilt and felt so alone and isolated for so long. I often have to say t o husband (he loves to wothdraw and let me handle it all), hey, I need (and be speicific.</p><p> I am going down to the firswt teratment team meeting alone today but I am OK with that as he needs to get back to his job, he took like 3 days off the last week to help . I no longetr though wil carry it all. I remeber too many times when she was thratning me with a knife aone in our ulitiy room at our country house and I was too ashamed to tell anyone, kept thinking it was a phase. Now I realize she was biplor from the begging, she had violent rages startign at 3. I ddeserve to be protected today and not do it all alone. </p><p> The facility she is in is behavioral and she will have consequences if she enages in those behaviors. I am really trying to detach. Yesttersy when she was reusing to sign in, refusing to cooperate, refusing to take her piercing out, I clamly said, if I were in your positon, I would respect the rules. Comapssion</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="compassion, post: 241651, member: 6393"] Sending strenth but I also second ask for help form husband. I am so much less resentful since I am doing that more. I was the heavy for years and years and he was cool becasue I enforced all limits. Sunday he told difficult child she could not currently live here becasue of the violent behaiovr/threats. For the frist time he is the meanie and she will nto talk to him but wants to talk to me. I had him call the cops to taransport her to treatment yeaterday. He reused to turn the car aorund on the wy to the hospital. Plus , getting support from this group, therapist, psychiatrist, and Al-Anon is helping so much. I took so much blame and guilt and felt so alone and isolated for so long. I often have to say t o husband (he loves to wothdraw and let me handle it all), hey, I need (and be speicific. I am going down to the firswt teratment team meeting alone today but I am OK with that as he needs to get back to his job, he took like 3 days off the last week to help . I no longetr though wil carry it all. I remeber too many times when she was thratning me with a knife aone in our ulitiy room at our country house and I was too ashamed to tell anyone, kept thinking it was a phase. Now I realize she was biplor from the begging, she had violent rages startign at 3. I ddeserve to be protected today and not do it all alone. The facility she is in is behavioral and she will have consequences if she enages in those behaviors. I am really trying to detach. Yesttersy when she was reusing to sign in, refusing to cooperate, refusing to take her piercing out, I clamly said, if I were in your positon, I would respect the rules. Comapssion [/QUOTE]
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