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<blockquote data-quote="TerryJ2" data-source="post: 179456" data-attributes="member: 3419"><p>Yeah, I'm still very angry but husband is right. She will cut us off so we have to be careful.</p><p> </p><p>At some point I may be able to ask her how she feels about all of it, but I got the gist of it today when she said she wanted to have fun.</p><p> </p><p>She does not negotiate or do confrontations well. She flies off the handle and then walks out. That's what she did with-the contractors. And that's how she handled her 24-yr-old. Apparently she did the same thing to S. and they broke it off, but she went to a therapist who said that no matter whether she stays or goes, she needs to take care of unfinished biz with-him.</p><p>I can see the therapist's point of view. I just wish the therapist knew what a slimebag this guy is.</p><p> </p><p>She has never lost her temper with-us but I have no doubt she would if we confronted her. It's a "them against me" proposition.</p><p> </p><p>Yes, she may have PTSD or depression or who knows what. Her husband died unexpectedly about 5 yrs ago. They were having dinner and then he went out to cut the grass. They live on the water like we do and there is a big hill going down to the river. He was on a riding mower or tractor and it overturned, pinning him under the water. One of the sons thought he was taking an awful long time, went to look for him and found him--saw the tractor with-his dad still in the seat, legs up in the air. </p><p>Horrendous.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TerryJ2, post: 179456, member: 3419"] Yeah, I'm still very angry but husband is right. She will cut us off so we have to be careful. At some point I may be able to ask her how she feels about all of it, but I got the gist of it today when she said she wanted to have fun. She does not negotiate or do confrontations well. She flies off the handle and then walks out. That's what she did with-the contractors. And that's how she handled her 24-yr-old. Apparently she did the same thing to S. and they broke it off, but she went to a therapist who said that no matter whether she stays or goes, she needs to take care of unfinished biz with-him. I can see the therapist's point of view. I just wish the therapist knew what a slimebag this guy is. She has never lost her temper with-us but I have no doubt she would if we confronted her. It's a "them against me" proposition. Yes, she may have PTSD or depression or who knows what. Her husband died unexpectedly about 5 yrs ago. They were having dinner and then he went out to cut the grass. They live on the water like we do and there is a big hill going down to the river. He was on a riding mower or tractor and it overturned, pinning him under the water. One of the sons thought he was taking an awful long time, went to look for him and found him--saw the tractor with-his dad still in the seat, legs up in the air. Horrendous. [/QUOTE]
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