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<blockquote data-quote="donna723" data-source="post: 179482" data-attributes="member: 1883"><p>Maybe her priorities have been mixed up all along and she just didn't have the opportunity before now! I've seen a lot of other people do this same thing ... doesn't make it right. My ex thinks exactly like this! When it comes down to it, NOTHING matters more than what HE wants! His own desires come before everything else, even his own children, and they always did. </p><p> </p><p>There's nothing wrong with a widowed lady having a social life. There's nothing wrong with her having a relationship with a man or going out and having fun or having a life of her own. But no responsible parent puts their own wants and needs ahead of their obligation to their children. And if her thought patterns are anything like my ex's, you or nobody else will get through to her. There's nothing wrong with "having fun" ... but you don't dump your own children to do it! If she doesn't see this now, you'd be wasting your breath to talk to her. If I were you, I'd really be calling CPS. In just a few weeks school will be starting and one of two things will happen - either she will want this boy to go where she and the boyfriend are, or he will receive no schooling at all. Truthfully, it doesn't sound like he's been getting much of an education with her anyway. Best you intervene now before this boy just disappears some day.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="donna723, post: 179482, member: 1883"] Maybe her priorities have been mixed up all along and she just didn't have the opportunity before now! I've seen a lot of other people do this same thing ... doesn't make it right. My ex thinks exactly like this! When it comes down to it, NOTHING matters more than what HE wants! His own desires come before everything else, even his own children, and they always did. There's nothing wrong with a widowed lady having a social life. There's nothing wrong with her having a relationship with a man or going out and having fun or having a life of her own. But no responsible parent puts their own wants and needs ahead of their obligation to their children. And if her thought patterns are anything like my ex's, you or nobody else will get through to her. There's nothing wrong with "having fun" ... but you don't dump your own children to do it! If she doesn't see this now, you'd be wasting your breath to talk to her. If I were you, I'd really be calling CPS. In just a few weeks school will be starting and one of two things will happen - either she will want this boy to go where she and the boyfriend are, or he will receive no schooling at all. Truthfully, it doesn't sound like he's been getting much of an education with her anyway. Best you intervene now before this boy just disappears some day. [/QUOTE]
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