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I think bio dad disappeared again.
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<blockquote data-quote="Steely" data-source="post: 261112" data-attributes="member: 3301"><p>Talk about every dysfunctional feeling possible. I think I have them at this moment.</p><p></p><p>I knew me moving to Arizona would be difficult for difficult child, but for some reason I thought it would be because <strong>I</strong> was moving. Yet, the first thing Matt asked about when he found out I was moving was, "what about my Dad?" I should have known.</p><p></p><p>His dad disappeared 2 days ago. His last comment to me was, </p><p>"after putting forth every effort to get back my relationship with my son for the last 3 years, now you are moving." Before that he had helped me pack up Matt's room, and I was being b*tchy and rude. Classic old tapes. Me, being rude ~ and bio dad disappears. </p><p></p><p>The problem with bio disappearing is that he does it for months, years at a time. And somehow I always feel responsible. And always Matt gets the short end. Always.</p><p></p><p>I feel so heartsick. I cannot explain it. I know all the healthy things I am supposed to think and do - but I just want Matthew to have his dad. He deserves to have his dad. Since he was 3, that was what I wanted for him - but try as I might - it is a variable out of my control.</p><p></p><p>I just feel it. Bio dads sick twisted way of paying me back for moving, will be, once again his disappearance.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Steely, post: 261112, member: 3301"] Talk about every dysfunctional feeling possible. I think I have them at this moment. I knew me moving to Arizona would be difficult for difficult child, but for some reason I thought it would be because [B]I[/B] was moving. Yet, the first thing Matt asked about when he found out I was moving was, "what about my Dad?" I should have known. His dad disappeared 2 days ago. His last comment to me was, "after putting forth every effort to get back my relationship with my son for the last 3 years, now you are moving." Before that he had helped me pack up Matt's room, and I was being b*tchy and rude. Classic old tapes. Me, being rude ~ and bio dad disappears. The problem with bio disappearing is that he does it for months, years at a time. And somehow I always feel responsible. And always Matt gets the short end. Always. I feel so heartsick. I cannot explain it. I know all the healthy things I am supposed to think and do - but I just want Matthew to have his dad. He deserves to have his dad. Since he was 3, that was what I wanted for him - but try as I might - it is a variable out of my control. I just feel it. Bio dads sick twisted way of paying me back for moving, will be, once again his disappearance. [/QUOTE]
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