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I think H has flipped his lid
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<blockquote data-quote="KFld" data-source="post: 82257" data-attributes="member: 2442"><p>All of his friends think what he is doing is absolutley crazy, and they have told him that.</p><p></p><p>He has always been close to my boyfriend jill and has confided in her things over the years. Nothing to do with me before that she ever hid from me, but for some reason he feels he can talk to her now and though she is very honest with him about how she feels about what he is doing and gives him her honest opinion of everything, he has no clue she tells me these things. Sometimes I wonder if she should tell me because I can't repeat them, but I just want to scream. </p><p></p><p>He is absolutley dillusional. I think these are the things he wants but once again can't take the responsibility of admitting it and ending the marriage. That would make it his fault in his eyes and he wants to be able to tell people I left him. </p><p></p><p>I hope he tells the counselor all of this because I can already hear her reactions now!! She doesn't pull any punches. What will happen though is he won't like her responses and he will stop going. </p><p></p><p>Oh well, his choice.</p><p></p><p>My girlfriend asked him how he would feel if I went out and experimented with different relationships like he wants to do, and thinks I want to do, and then came back and said, oh I made a mistake honey, all I want is you. He told her he doesn't know what he would do. I'll tell you what he would do, it would kill him and he'd never speak to me again, but by admitting this to himself he's admitting that it would be wrong for him to do that and he's hoping he can do that and then I will take him back if he decides he doesn't want to be with someone else. It's like he's projecting everything he wants onto me. It's really bizarre. He told her how one of our friends was joking around and asked him if he could hit on me now and he flipped out about it. Let's see.... you had an affair, but your flipping out because someone is teasing about hitting on me.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="KFld, post: 82257, member: 2442"] All of his friends think what he is doing is absolutley crazy, and they have told him that. He has always been close to my boyfriend jill and has confided in her things over the years. Nothing to do with me before that she ever hid from me, but for some reason he feels he can talk to her now and though she is very honest with him about how she feels about what he is doing and gives him her honest opinion of everything, he has no clue she tells me these things. Sometimes I wonder if she should tell me because I can't repeat them, but I just want to scream. He is absolutley dillusional. I think these are the things he wants but once again can't take the responsibility of admitting it and ending the marriage. That would make it his fault in his eyes and he wants to be able to tell people I left him. I hope he tells the counselor all of this because I can already hear her reactions now!! She doesn't pull any punches. What will happen though is he won't like her responses and he will stop going. Oh well, his choice. My girlfriend asked him how he would feel if I went out and experimented with different relationships like he wants to do, and thinks I want to do, and then came back and said, oh I made a mistake honey, all I want is you. He told her he doesn't know what he would do. I'll tell you what he would do, it would kill him and he'd never speak to me again, but by admitting this to himself he's admitting that it would be wrong for him to do that and he's hoping he can do that and then I will take him back if he decides he doesn't want to be with someone else. It's like he's projecting everything he wants onto me. It's really bizarre. He told her how one of our friends was joking around and asked him if he could hit on me now and he flipped out about it. Let's see.... you had an affair, but your flipping out because someone is teasing about hitting on me. [/QUOTE]
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