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I think H has flipped his lid
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<blockquote data-quote="flutterbee" data-source="post: 82296"><p><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: KFld</div><div class="ubbcode-body">He has huge fears about being alone. This is something he has to deal with. He needs to learn how to be happy with himself before anyone else is going to make him happy. </p><p></p><p>He doesn't want to even give me the time to deal with what happened. He just wants to know if he can move on or not??? </p><p></p><p>If he needs an answer right now, then he can just move on, because I don't have an answer yet about anything. </div></div></p><p></p><p>Oh, Karen, I wholeheartedly agree. You should not feel pressured or rushed just because he doesn't want to spend the holiday's alone. I was just making an observation.</p><p></p><p>You know, in my experience, it's really not uncommon...the fear of being alone. I see people all around me all the time going from one relationship to another without giving themselves time in between. Those are the people that tend to repeat their mistakes, too. </p><p></p><p>I have a friend like this. Within 6 months of ending an 18 year marriage, he was engaged to someone else (after a whole 2 months of dating). I asked him what they had in common. He couldn't answer. The thing they have in common? Neither one of them wants to be alone.</p><p></p><p>I'm not justifying or excusing H's behavior in any way. in my opinion, his behavior is inexcusable.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="flutterbee, post: 82296"] <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: KFld</div><div class="ubbcode-body">He has huge fears about being alone. This is something he has to deal with. He needs to learn how to be happy with himself before anyone else is going to make him happy. He doesn't want to even give me the time to deal with what happened. He just wants to know if he can move on or not??? If he needs an answer right now, then he can just move on, because I don't have an answer yet about anything. </div></div> Oh, Karen, I wholeheartedly agree. You should not feel pressured or rushed just because he doesn't want to spend the holiday's alone. I was just making an observation. You know, in my experience, it's really not uncommon...the fear of being alone. I see people all around me all the time going from one relationship to another without giving themselves time in between. Those are the people that tend to repeat their mistakes, too. I have a friend like this. Within 6 months of ending an 18 year marriage, he was engaged to someone else (after a whole 2 months of dating). I asked him what they had in common. He couldn't answer. The thing they have in common? Neither one of them wants to be alone. I'm not justifying or excusing H's behavior in any way. in my opinion, his behavior is inexcusable. [/QUOTE]
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