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I think I am ready to give up on her
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<blockquote data-quote="happymomof2" data-source="post: 97602" data-attributes="member: 4270"><p>Lill, I am relatively new here myself. My son is 14 and has not so far gotten into all that stuff, hope he doesn't. However my sisters daughter did. From the time she turned 12 til she was 16 she was running away from home - skipping school - doing drugs and drinking. </p><p></p><p>She finally moved in with her boyfriend at 16. Alot has happened since then and she is now 28 with 2 kids and another on the way. All of that is totally screwed up because the dad of the 2 kids is not her husband nor is the guy she is with now. She never officially divorced her hubby. The guy she is with now is old enough to be her grandfather and guess what - she's pregnant by him. But she is now 28 and all though her life has been like a true soap opera she is settled down alot. </p><p></p><p>I was upset when my sis let her move out at 16, but now that I have kids I understand. She went through pure hell with that child and it got to the point where she couldn't take it anymore. </p><p></p><p>Also you are right, your other child deserves a safe healthy happy home - not all this. When my son was giving me so much trouble in elementary school I missed out on alot with my daughter who is 2 years younger than him. </p><p></p><p>Do what you need to do for your safety and sanity. From what I can tell you are a great mother. No matter what decision you make there will be regrets unfortunately, but again you gotta do what you gotta do.</p><p></p><p>Take Care</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="happymomof2, post: 97602, member: 4270"] Lill, I am relatively new here myself. My son is 14 and has not so far gotten into all that stuff, hope he doesn't. However my sisters daughter did. From the time she turned 12 til she was 16 she was running away from home - skipping school - doing drugs and drinking. She finally moved in with her boyfriend at 16. Alot has happened since then and she is now 28 with 2 kids and another on the way. All of that is totally screwed up because the dad of the 2 kids is not her husband nor is the guy she is with now. She never officially divorced her hubby. The guy she is with now is old enough to be her grandfather and guess what - she's pregnant by him. But she is now 28 and all though her life has been like a true soap opera she is settled down alot. I was upset when my sis let her move out at 16, but now that I have kids I understand. She went through pure hell with that child and it got to the point where she couldn't take it anymore. Also you are right, your other child deserves a safe healthy happy home - not all this. When my son was giving me so much trouble in elementary school I missed out on alot with my daughter who is 2 years younger than him. Do what you need to do for your safety and sanity. From what I can tell you are a great mother. No matter what decision you make there will be regrets unfortunately, but again you gotta do what you gotta do. Take Care [/QUOTE]
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