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<blockquote data-quote="rlsnights" data-source="post: 421462" data-attributes="member: 7948"><p>Shari honey. I know where you are coming from. Got some similar stuff happening here.</p><p></p><p>My advice FWIW - find yourself a therapist. You have post-trauma things to work out for yourself. And get into couples therapy.</p><p></p><p>Hiding your real feelings and needs from him - not good in my experience. been there done that and it will work for a while. But you are probably already really angry at him if you pay attention to your feelings. You and he must decide - are you both going to accept his "limitations" or are you going to demand more from him? Is he really as incompetent as you think he is (he can't figure out how to contact the insurance? You can't trust him to be at your side when you're facing amputation? He let you face that without him???) or are you unable/unwilling to trust and rely on him?</p><p></p><p>It's complicated and you need help sorting it out. And the accident has left you little or no room to avoid or deny the elephant in the room any longer.</p><p></p><p>There are probably things that both of you need to work on - do it together and you will build a strong, lasting partnership.</p><p></p><p>Best wishes,</p><p></p><p>Patricia</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="rlsnights, post: 421462, member: 7948"] Shari honey. I know where you are coming from. Got some similar stuff happening here. My advice FWIW - find yourself a therapist. You have post-trauma things to work out for yourself. And get into couples therapy. Hiding your real feelings and needs from him - not good in my experience. been there done that and it will work for a while. But you are probably already really angry at him if you pay attention to your feelings. You and he must decide - are you both going to accept his "limitations" or are you going to demand more from him? Is he really as incompetent as you think he is (he can't figure out how to contact the insurance? You can't trust him to be at your side when you're facing amputation? He let you face that without him???) or are you unable/unwilling to trust and rely on him? It's complicated and you need help sorting it out. And the accident has left you little or no room to avoid or deny the elephant in the room any longer. There are probably things that both of you need to work on - do it together and you will build a strong, lasting partnership. Best wishes, Patricia [/QUOTE]
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