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I think my cousin's cat died
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 361486" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Darlin,</p><p></p><p>You need to get AWAY. Just for a couple of days. Doesn't have to be fancy, just not home around the phone calls, the problems, difficult child rages, etc... My mother has occasionally taken a project (sewing usually) and gone to a Motel 6 for a couple of days. She eats out or has food delivered. She sews, reads, watched mindless stuff on TV, and sleeps some more. It gives her time to do what SHE wants, to think with-o interruption, to not have to cope with anyone. Her cell phone goes with her but no incoming calls are answered unless it is her therapist. Maybe some version of this will help you?</p><p></p><p>difficult child seems to be showing a lot of violence toward you. The rage in the car was really dangerous. You both could have died from an accident caused by the rage and/or the bite. It may be time for him to go toa psychiatric hospital for some more intense help. Rages where he injures you or someone else simply cannot be tolerated. As it stems from his disorders, the psychiatric hospital is probably a more effective response than anything else.</p><p></p><p>I am sorry you got hurt again. You may have to turn daily handling of difficult child over to husband. If difficult child continues to be aggressive to you it will make it unsafe for you to take him anywhere in the car or even on foot. If he is also aggressive with husband, in the car or at home, then you really must call his psychiatrist and push for hospitalization. </p><p></p><p>Please see your doctor to have the bite taken care of. Human bites are worse than cat bites, or so I have been told. </p><p></p><p>I am so sorry things are so rough.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 361486, member: 1233"] Darlin, You need to get AWAY. Just for a couple of days. Doesn't have to be fancy, just not home around the phone calls, the problems, difficult child rages, etc... My mother has occasionally taken a project (sewing usually) and gone to a Motel 6 for a couple of days. She eats out or has food delivered. She sews, reads, watched mindless stuff on TV, and sleeps some more. It gives her time to do what SHE wants, to think with-o interruption, to not have to cope with anyone. Her cell phone goes with her but no incoming calls are answered unless it is her therapist. Maybe some version of this will help you? difficult child seems to be showing a lot of violence toward you. The rage in the car was really dangerous. You both could have died from an accident caused by the rage and/or the bite. It may be time for him to go toa psychiatric hospital for some more intense help. Rages where he injures you or someone else simply cannot be tolerated. As it stems from his disorders, the psychiatric hospital is probably a more effective response than anything else. I am sorry you got hurt again. You may have to turn daily handling of difficult child over to husband. If difficult child continues to be aggressive to you it will make it unsafe for you to take him anywhere in the car or even on foot. If he is also aggressive with husband, in the car or at home, then you really must call his psychiatrist and push for hospitalization. Please see your doctor to have the bite taken care of. Human bites are worse than cat bites, or so I have been told. I am so sorry things are so rough. [/QUOTE]
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