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I told her she has to move out by the end of month. I am heartsick.
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<blockquote data-quote="Tiredof33" data-source="post: 590029" data-attributes="member: 13558"><p>I also feel your pain! When my difficult child gave me the one-more-time-sob-story about how carefully he had planned the expenses for their trip to a concert none of it made sense. How can a mix up in reservations cause you to be short of money?? I just ignored it and 'loaned' him the money to get home. </p><p></p><p>I overlooked the pain (for me) he and girlie caused with with the homeless con that went on for months. I was like a monkey jumping through hoops trying to help him finish the semester <em><strong>when it was all lies.</strong></em> The extent that my difficult child can lie while looking me in the eyes is unbelievable.</p><p></p><p>I finally had enough and started calling him on the lies, then the about face was startling. He understood that I saw through his lies and was no long going to over look them, no longer send money for any reason. He let me know that he didn't care one iota for me unless I was dishing out money with no questions asked.</p><p></p><p>His NC is spiteful on his part, but when he gets passed being p***** at me, he'll just start the 'I need money' again. I had hoped my difficult child would eventually become a responsible adult, heavy sigh, he has always worked in the past (spent it as fast as he earned it) but after meeting girlie 3 years ago his main focus is to spike and dye his hair and be a groupy at concerts.</p><p></p><p>My difficult child will turn 35 in a few months and girlie is about 38/39. It took a very long time for me to accept that he is what he is and I can't make him be a responsible adult. I will never in a million years understand anyone that would rather con people than work, especially when it is their family.</p><p>(((blessing for us all, only a parent of one of theses kids can truly understand the pain)))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tiredof33, post: 590029, member: 13558"] I also feel your pain! When my difficult child gave me the one-more-time-sob-story about how carefully he had planned the expenses for their trip to a concert none of it made sense. How can a mix up in reservations cause you to be short of money?? I just ignored it and 'loaned' him the money to get home. I overlooked the pain (for me) he and girlie caused with with the homeless con that went on for months. I was like a monkey jumping through hoops trying to help him finish the semester [I][B]when it was all lies.[/B][/I] The extent that my difficult child can lie while looking me in the eyes is unbelievable. I finally had enough and started calling him on the lies, then the about face was startling. He understood that I saw through his lies and was no long going to over look them, no longer send money for any reason. He let me know that he didn't care one iota for me unless I was dishing out money with no questions asked. His NC is spiteful on his part, but when he gets passed being p***** at me, he'll just start the 'I need money' again. I had hoped my difficult child would eventually become a responsible adult, heavy sigh, he has always worked in the past (spent it as fast as he earned it) but after meeting girlie 3 years ago his main focus is to spike and dye his hair and be a groupy at concerts. My difficult child will turn 35 in a few months and girlie is about 38/39. It took a very long time for me to accept that he is what he is and I can't make him be a responsible adult. I will never in a million years understand anyone that would rather con people than work, especially when it is their family. (((blessing for us all, only a parent of one of theses kids can truly understand the pain))) [/QUOTE]
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