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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 223557" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslateblue">Sounds like my IL's. I would like to say it's all old people, but I don't think so. My mom isn't like that most of the time and she understands we have our own routines. Well, she did before she lost her memory.</span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslateblue">Scream, slam cabinets. And then let it go. H now knows how you feel/felt and how to plan things according to the family schedule in the future. </span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslateblue">All in all, it sounds like it's more you than anything. I don't mean that in a bad way - I am the same way with my in-laws. I get all uptight and torn between being the dutiful dauighter in law and still maintaining our schedules and simple way of doing things - being comfortable in my own skin when my IL's are around is very VERY difficult for me. </span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslateblue">When the girls were little and I knew the IL's were coming for a visit, I would deliberately plan for them to be in NY with their dad. Taking the kids out of the visit with the IL's helped me a great deal. With difficult child and her gfgness, I felt like all eyes were on me and scrutinizing everything. I could not relax and enjoy the time spent together (not that it's ever enjoyable really). </span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslateblue">Glad it's over and your H understands better. </span></span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 223557, member: 2211"] [FONT=Century Gothic][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue]Sounds like my IL's. I would like to say it's all old people, but I don't think so. My mom isn't like that most of the time and she understands we have our own routines. Well, she did before she lost her memory.[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Century Gothic][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Century Gothic][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue]Scream, slam cabinets. And then let it go. H now knows how you feel/felt and how to plan things according to the family schedule in the future. [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Century Gothic][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Century Gothic][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue]All in all, it sounds like it's more you than anything. I don't mean that in a bad way - I am the same way with my in-laws. I get all uptight and torn between being the dutiful dauighter in law and still maintaining our schedules and simple way of doing things - being comfortable in my own skin when my IL's are around is very VERY difficult for me. [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Century Gothic][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Century Gothic][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue]When the girls were little and I knew the IL's were coming for a visit, I would deliberately plan for them to be in NY with their dad. Taking the kids out of the visit with the IL's helped me a great deal. With difficult child and her gfgness, I felt like all eyes were on me and scrutinizing everything. I could not relax and enjoy the time spent together (not that it's ever enjoyable really). [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Century Gothic][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Century Gothic][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue]Glad it's over and your H understands better. [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [/QUOTE]
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