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<blockquote data-quote="compassion" data-source="post: 237854" data-attributes="member: 6393"><p>It is boundaries and acceptance. I don't like it but I need serenity for me. She came in at 1 AM, curfew is 10. She is basically doing nothing inclusing the basic are of herself around here. That is very sad to me. I told husband tonight to majorally lower expectations, that lessens the resentment for me. If she does do stuff, it is amajor shock. or example, with academics, etc. I expect her NOT to comply. Yet, she will demand her way. </p><p> I have decided this week to do my cooking and the acemics for her online stuff in the morning when she is slleping , alot like dealing with young toddlers. She has therapy tomorrow which a lot of times seems like a waste of time but it does help me to have her sign contracts and put that back on her choices. My guilt level is 800 times lower. </p><p> I do feel good about the healthy food, the meals, what I choosing. I am doing pretty good with detatchment. Having a break from her this weekend helped tons. I know I can't reason with her illness, bipolar, subatance abuser, conduct disorder. </p><p> It ws jsut so wondorful havingmhy home back this weekend, I got to really nest and relax.</p><p> Tomorrow, I will take her to tharapy. She will most likely come back and sleep . I will attempt acaemics but no power stuglles <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" />. She is identifying that she is anzious and msses the old times(great growth for her) She has been very anxious and depresswed this past week. I knwo this is anger turne dinward. </p><p> I am having patience and compassion. </p><p>I try to keep meals very simple: I will so a simple stirfry tommow. Compassion</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="compassion, post: 237854, member: 6393"] It is boundaries and acceptance. I don't like it but I need serenity for me. She came in at 1 AM, curfew is 10. She is basically doing nothing inclusing the basic are of herself around here. That is very sad to me. I told husband tonight to majorally lower expectations, that lessens the resentment for me. If she does do stuff, it is amajor shock. or example, with academics, etc. I expect her NOT to comply. Yet, she will demand her way. I have decided this week to do my cooking and the acemics for her online stuff in the morning when she is slleping , alot like dealing with young toddlers. She has therapy tomorrow which a lot of times seems like a waste of time but it does help me to have her sign contracts and put that back on her choices. My guilt level is 800 times lower. I do feel good about the healthy food, the meals, what I choosing. I am doing pretty good with detatchment. Having a break from her this weekend helped tons. I know I can't reason with her illness, bipolar, subatance abuser, conduct disorder. It ws jsut so wondorful havingmhy home back this weekend, I got to really nest and relax. Tomorrow, I will take her to tharapy. She will most likely come back and sleep . I will attempt acaemics but no power stuglles :). She is identifying that she is anzious and msses the old times(great growth for her) She has been very anxious and depresswed this past week. I knwo this is anger turne dinward. I am having patience and compassion. I try to keep meals very simple: I will so a simple stirfry tommow. Compassion [/QUOTE]
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