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If I didn't think I'd go to h*ll, I'd kill myself
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<blockquote data-quote="Mamaof5" data-source="post: 358203"><p>Don't stay in that relationship, don't do it. Your children are more aware of what's going on between you and "dear" H. In the end the ones that suffer the most (and speaking from experience here, my parents stayed together 21 years through my dad's gambling addictions, hard drug addictions and alcoholism as well as cheating). Despite them thinking they were hiding all of that - my sister and I knew all along.</p><p></p><p>They feel it, sense it and it can make a difficult child worse for symptoms. Environment, despite what some may say out there, does play a role in difficult child behaviors and symptoms. The stress of that environment they can't cope with and start lashing out behavior wise. Even if you keep it behind closed doors away from them the body language, the micro expressions on your face, the illustrators and manipulators (it's subconscious body language) show them the truth, the real story that's happening between their parents.</p><p></p><p>The number one thing though in this situation - it's not healthy for you to stay - RUN and be damned what other people think or say. You have to do for you before you can do for your kids. If you aren't in a healthy environment and it's affecting you massively, imagine how much more it's affecting your kids (multiply that by about 100X). Don't make the same mistakes my mom did and she'd tell you the same I am too if she were here. Get out before he escalates to physical violence, get out of that environment. There are so many resources for you and your kids out there that can help - DV half way houses, suicide hotlines, kids help line (not just for the kids), family members, friends, us...do something now before it's too late.</p><p></p><p>If you want to talk, you can PM me anytime. I'm a childhood sexual assault survivor, I will listen not judge and I will keep everything confidential. If you want to talk PM me I'll be there to listen to you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Mamaof5, post: 358203"] Don't stay in that relationship, don't do it. Your children are more aware of what's going on between you and "dear" H. In the end the ones that suffer the most (and speaking from experience here, my parents stayed together 21 years through my dad's gambling addictions, hard drug addictions and alcoholism as well as cheating). Despite them thinking they were hiding all of that - my sister and I knew all along. They feel it, sense it and it can make a difficult child worse for symptoms. Environment, despite what some may say out there, does play a role in difficult child behaviors and symptoms. The stress of that environment they can't cope with and start lashing out behavior wise. Even if you keep it behind closed doors away from them the body language, the micro expressions on your face, the illustrators and manipulators (it's subconscious body language) show them the truth, the real story that's happening between their parents. The number one thing though in this situation - it's not healthy for you to stay - RUN and be damned what other people think or say. You have to do for you before you can do for your kids. If you aren't in a healthy environment and it's affecting you massively, imagine how much more it's affecting your kids (multiply that by about 100X). Don't make the same mistakes my mom did and she'd tell you the same I am too if she were here. Get out before he escalates to physical violence, get out of that environment. There are so many resources for you and your kids out there that can help - DV half way houses, suicide hotlines, kids help line (not just for the kids), family members, friends, us...do something now before it's too late. If you want to talk, you can PM me anytime. I'm a childhood sexual assault survivor, I will listen not judge and I will keep everything confidential. If you want to talk PM me I'll be there to listen to you. [/QUOTE]
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