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If only my skin were thicker
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<blockquote data-quote="trinityroyal" data-source="post: 116715" data-attributes="member: 3907"><p>{{{{{Hugs}}}}} SnT,</p><p></p><p>It's very hard on our mommy hearts to deal with the insults and hurtful things that our difficult children can say to us.</p><p></p><p>The only thing I've ever found that works with my difficult child is to just not react. I could be completely crushed inside, but I just bite my tongue (BBK calls it sitting on your lips), and don't ever let him see that he's gotten to me.</p><p></p><p>If he can see that he's hurt your feelings, then it gives him a strange feeling of power, and he will continue to say horrible hurtful things. If he's no longer getting the gratification of a reaction from you, then he might let up. Even if he doesn't you're not buying into it any more.</p><p></p><p>Sending prayers and strength your way,</p><p>Trinity</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="trinityroyal, post: 116715, member: 3907"] {{{{{Hugs}}}}} SnT, It's very hard on our mommy hearts to deal with the insults and hurtful things that our difficult children can say to us. The only thing I've ever found that works with my difficult child is to just not react. I could be completely crushed inside, but I just bite my tongue (BBK calls it sitting on your lips), and don't ever let him see that he's gotten to me. If he can see that he's hurt your feelings, then it gives him a strange feeling of power, and he will continue to say horrible hurtful things. If he's no longer getting the gratification of a reaction from you, then he might let up. Even if he doesn't you're not buying into it any more. Sending prayers and strength your way, Trinity [/QUOTE]
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