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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 332873" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>It makes a lot of sense. </p><p></p><p>Legally Nichole CANNOT claim herself and Aubrey. Period. If you want to let her you can, but it is not LEGAL. She simply meets the definition of dependent. Period. Go to a tax person this weekend and get your taxes done. Reality is that whomever files first can get away with it. But if you also claim them then there will be an investigation and YOU will win.</p><p></p><p>I am very worried about your kidneys. I know you have a lot of pride. Look at your grandbabies. Aubrey and Darrin and the baby. Are you willing to miss out on seeing them go to high school? Play whatever sport they want to try? Start to date? Graduate high school? Go to college?</p><p></p><p>That is what you are choosing when you let pride keep you from seeing the docs. You NEED to start filing for disability. You can still go to school. but this will give you some money to live on and it will get health care for you. I bet you $1 that if you call the doctors nurse and tell her that you are having the symptoms you are having and that your husband is out of work and you are unable to pay the doctor will let you pay later or treat you for free.</p><p></p><p>Sweetie, the pain is a MESSAGE. Yes, you CAN grit your teeth and push through it. Ignore it. But that will simply mean you die pretty soon. Your body is telling you that it NEEDS help. ASAP. </p><p></p><p>Or you can go to the ER. Ask them to get a nephrology consult. Have your diagnosis's and symptoms written down or typed. Let them look at you funny. Let them admit you. I think you NEED it. </p><p></p><p>You are playing a dangerous game. A very dangerous one. The way your kidneys are working is very bad. Ignoring this just is NOT a smart thing to do. easy child is a nurse. Tell her your symptoms and pain. Do NOT downplay it. Ask HER what she thinks you should do. I bet she says go to the hospital.</p><p></p><p>I am so sorry things are this bad. Nichole needs to get over herself and stop being greedy. Maybe if you give her the difference between what she will get not claiming herself and Aubrey and claiming herself and Aubrey then she will settle down. We have down that with my parents. Only we never intended to claim ourselves when we lived with them. husband worked so he claimed himself. My mom and dad offered teh $$ freely. We took it and then spent it on things for the household or to fix up the house. Never on ourselves.</p><p></p><p>Sending hugs and prayers that you do what your body needs even if you have to sit out this quarter to get your strength up and your kidneys working. You very well may collapse at school. PLEASE stop playing around with the kidney problems. If you need a transplant I will get tested. Just get to a doctor in the next few days. PLEASE.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 332873, member: 1233"] It makes a lot of sense. Legally Nichole CANNOT claim herself and Aubrey. Period. If you want to let her you can, but it is not LEGAL. She simply meets the definition of dependent. Period. Go to a tax person this weekend and get your taxes done. Reality is that whomever files first can get away with it. But if you also claim them then there will be an investigation and YOU will win. I am very worried about your kidneys. I know you have a lot of pride. Look at your grandbabies. Aubrey and Darrin and the baby. Are you willing to miss out on seeing them go to high school? Play whatever sport they want to try? Start to date? Graduate high school? Go to college? That is what you are choosing when you let pride keep you from seeing the docs. You NEED to start filing for disability. You can still go to school. but this will give you some money to live on and it will get health care for you. I bet you $1 that if you call the doctors nurse and tell her that you are having the symptoms you are having and that your husband is out of work and you are unable to pay the doctor will let you pay later or treat you for free. Sweetie, the pain is a MESSAGE. Yes, you CAN grit your teeth and push through it. Ignore it. But that will simply mean you die pretty soon. Your body is telling you that it NEEDS help. ASAP. Or you can go to the ER. Ask them to get a nephrology consult. Have your diagnosis's and symptoms written down or typed. Let them look at you funny. Let them admit you. I think you NEED it. You are playing a dangerous game. A very dangerous one. The way your kidneys are working is very bad. Ignoring this just is NOT a smart thing to do. easy child is a nurse. Tell her your symptoms and pain. Do NOT downplay it. Ask HER what she thinks you should do. I bet she says go to the hospital. I am so sorry things are this bad. Nichole needs to get over herself and stop being greedy. Maybe if you give her the difference between what she will get not claiming herself and Aubrey and claiming herself and Aubrey then she will settle down. We have down that with my parents. Only we never intended to claim ourselves when we lived with them. husband worked so he claimed himself. My mom and dad offered teh $$ freely. We took it and then spent it on things for the household or to fix up the house. Never on ourselves. Sending hugs and prayers that you do what your body needs even if you have to sit out this quarter to get your strength up and your kidneys working. You very well may collapse at school. PLEASE stop playing around with the kidney problems. If you need a transplant I will get tested. Just get to a doctor in the next few days. PLEASE. [/QUOTE]
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