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<blockquote data-quote="mom_to_3" data-source="post: 154716" data-attributes="member: 30"><p>I just wanted to let you know, that while I spoke the words to you I did, I also have a 20 yr. old easy child daughter. She had been dating a guy for a little over a year. Initially, I thought he was a good kid and I had no problem with him or their relationship. I'd say in the last 6 months or so, I "noticed" things he said and did just kind of rubbed me the wrong way and I noticed a change in my daughter. We have always been close and able to talk freely to each other. When I did talk to my daughter about some of this, I noticed that she was no longer "open" to hearing what I had to say. I could sense her shutting down and she would get snippy with me. Very unlike her.</p><p></p><p>As it turns out, he was very controlling and was telling her things so that she felt she did nothing right in his eyes. She recently broke it off with him. I am so happy! I was getting a little concerned that they were going to get married. OMG! My daughter only told me that he was controlling, etc. AFTER they broke up.</p><p></p><p>She has told me that she feels great relief now that she broke it off. She also told me that she didn't talk to me, because she knew I was right and she knew what she had to do, but just didn't have the guts at that time. It was a confusing time for me too.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="mom_to_3, post: 154716, member: 30"] I just wanted to let you know, that while I spoke the words to you I did, I also have a 20 yr. old easy child daughter. She had been dating a guy for a little over a year. Initially, I thought he was a good kid and I had no problem with him or their relationship. I'd say in the last 6 months or so, I "noticed" things he said and did just kind of rubbed me the wrong way and I noticed a change in my daughter. We have always been close and able to talk freely to each other. When I did talk to my daughter about some of this, I noticed that she was no longer "open" to hearing what I had to say. I could sense her shutting down and she would get snippy with me. Very unlike her. As it turns out, he was very controlling and was telling her things so that she felt she did nothing right in his eyes. She recently broke it off with him. I am so happy! I was getting a little concerned that they were going to get married. OMG! My daughter only told me that he was controlling, etc. AFTER they broke up. She has told me that she feels great relief now that she broke it off. She also told me that she didn't talk to me, because she knew I was right and she knew what she had to do, but just didn't have the guts at that time. It was a confusing time for me too. [/QUOTE]
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