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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 155426" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Lisa,</p><p> </p><p>I am so sorry. this is such a scaary situation to see your child in.</p><p> </p><p>the question that popped into my mind is "what is he taking?" I don't know for sure if he is using drugs, but it sounds like a typical ingredient in this mix.</p><p> </p><p>I would never ever give warning that I was sending police. </p><p> </p><p>I would also say, as a condition of living in your home, Nichole has to take anger mgmt or whatever classes at the domestic violence shelter. Here it is called Family Services and they have a range of services. Call them, see what they offer, and then when you have the journal with a few months of info, go out for a ride with Nichole and end up there. </p><p> </p><p>This is NOT going to end with-o serious counselling for Nichole, or a real tragedy.</p><p> </p><p>I also would support calling CPS next time you know something is going on. Maybe even letting Nichole know she can spend a bit more time in your home as an adult IF she leaves him (and does her other stuff, of course) and gets help from the DV shelter. </p><p> </p><p>Nichole wants to be a good mom. Does she know how scary it is for the baby to see boyfriend treat her like that??? And, no current custody means she can easily get a TRO and custody (or that is how it works here), as he has NO proof of paying child support. </p><p> </p><p>Hugs,</p><p>Susie</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 155426, member: 1233"] Lisa, I am so sorry. this is such a scaary situation to see your child in. the question that popped into my mind is "what is he taking?" I don't know for sure if he is using drugs, but it sounds like a typical ingredient in this mix. I would never ever give warning that I was sending police. I would also say, as a condition of living in your home, Nichole has to take anger mgmt or whatever classes at the domestic violence shelter. Here it is called Family Services and they have a range of services. Call them, see what they offer, and then when you have the journal with a few months of info, go out for a ride with Nichole and end up there. This is NOT going to end with-o serious counselling for Nichole, or a real tragedy. I also would support calling CPS next time you know something is going on. Maybe even letting Nichole know she can spend a bit more time in your home as an adult IF she leaves him (and does her other stuff, of course) and gets help from the DV shelter. Nichole wants to be a good mom. Does she know how scary it is for the baby to see boyfriend treat her like that??? And, no current custody means she can easily get a TRO and custody (or that is how it works here), as he has NO proof of paying child support. Hugs, Susie [/QUOTE]
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