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<blockquote data-quote="Marguerite" data-source="post: 250177" data-attributes="member: 1991"><p>Abbey, hang in there. I'd still be talking to someone about access to the contents of your bank accounts, because if you contributed, you are entitled to some of it and he shouldn't have been able to cut you off like that. I'm amazed they allowed it, unless they were only in his name to begin with, with you having co-sign rights. But even if they were, if you cna show that you contributed to the balance in the past (say, having pay tranferred to those accounts, or making deposits) then you could make a case for some access.</p><p></p><p>There doesn't need to be physical violence for a relationship to be controlling and abusive. Cotrolling finances is just one form of abusive relationship. Talk to the police before you go, see if you can make a statement and get a report so that he can't say much later on that you've only just made it all up.</p><p></p><p>I understand your need to just go - but put in some groundwork as you go, to make it possibly easier on yourself later on. You just don't know what you'll need later on in terms of corroboration.</p><p></p><p>I wish I could reach across and help, but I'm a bit far away. </p><p></p><p>Marg</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Marguerite, post: 250177, member: 1991"] Abbey, hang in there. I'd still be talking to someone about access to the contents of your bank accounts, because if you contributed, you are entitled to some of it and he shouldn't have been able to cut you off like that. I'm amazed they allowed it, unless they were only in his name to begin with, with you having co-sign rights. But even if they were, if you cna show that you contributed to the balance in the past (say, having pay tranferred to those accounts, or making deposits) then you could make a case for some access. There doesn't need to be physical violence for a relationship to be controlling and abusive. Cotrolling finances is just one form of abusive relationship. Talk to the police before you go, see if you can make a statement and get a report so that he can't say much later on that you've only just made it all up. I understand your need to just go - but put in some groundwork as you go, to make it possibly easier on yourself later on. You just don't know what you'll need later on in terms of corroboration. I wish I could reach across and help, but I'm a bit far away. Marg [/QUOTE]
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