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<blockquote data-quote="RWHangel" data-source="post: 307540" data-attributes="member: 7842"><p>I have been dealing with simular problems with my difficult child but I have found that the 123 magic system works only if you really stick too it. It is very simple and affective with my difficult child but I have to stay consistant. Very simply when she acts out or screams at me I simply say "Thats one" if it continues "thats two" if it still goes or she comes back 5 minutes later still bad "that's three take 5". She absolutly hates it cause she has to take a 5 minute time out no discussion no argueing nothing. After her time is up she can come out but there is still no discussion about it. I have found there is no reasoning with her at all so why try. She is catching on and usually stops what ever is driving me crazy after I get to 2. The key is not letting up which can be hard and even harder is not getting angry and screaming cause that is all she wants anyways is to **** me off so she can get what she wants. It is hard I know but it is worth it to get control now before they get older or you will have a hell of a time with them.</p><p> </p><p>Love ya gals,</p><p>Angelia</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="RWHangel, post: 307540, member: 7842"] I have been dealing with simular problems with my difficult child but I have found that the 123 magic system works only if you really stick too it. It is very simple and affective with my difficult child but I have to stay consistant. Very simply when she acts out or screams at me I simply say "Thats one" if it continues "thats two" if it still goes or she comes back 5 minutes later still bad "that's three take 5". She absolutly hates it cause she has to take a 5 minute time out no discussion no argueing nothing. After her time is up she can come out but there is still no discussion about it. I have found there is no reasoning with her at all so why try. She is catching on and usually stops what ever is driving me crazy after I get to 2. The key is not letting up which can be hard and even harder is not getting angry and screaming cause that is all she wants anyways is to **** me off so she can get what she wants. It is hard I know but it is worth it to get control now before they get older or you will have a hell of a time with them. Love ya gals, Angelia [/QUOTE]
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