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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 537459" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>Oh please don't be nervous. I would be willing to bet the vast majority of posters here have felt as you are feeling right now...it is a weird feeling to talk about such serious and lonely topics. </p><p></p><p>I have a child who speaks in mean words (has even said "I won't do it, but I wish I could just squeeze your neck and kill you".....pretty hard not to take that and being called a Mo....f-word, b-word, n-word, etc....just can go on and on. Or, youre such a stupid <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/2012/censored2.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":censored2:" title="censored2 :censored2:" data-shortname=":censored2:" />. uggg I hate that, yesterday at the playground heard kids from 7 to 15 saying far worse and it helped put some perspective on it since our Pervasive Developmental Disorder (PDD)-ers dont really get the rules for words you say only among friends ( not that t hose are OK but kids know to hide it, etc) and how to treat different adults with different levels of respect.</p><p></p><p>While I do feel it, I often have to really detach my emotions and go into therapy mom mode. I turn off all extra sounds in the house and do reflect what he means (if his outburst is because of a change I work on the change, etc...). I do have to realize he didn't choose to have this frustration, this issue. Not.his.fault. Yes, we have to teach, correct, appropriately consequence(if meaningful for your child)...but the main thing is to do what you a re doing....figure out what is going on. medications? End of school? Changes in home?? Sensory issues, growth, whatever....it can be so overwhelming. Journaling can really help (record days, times, concerns, food, whatever you feel is needed....make sure to include the schedule.)</p><p></p><p>Anyway, gotta go get Q...really glad you joined. Lots of welcome wagon folks will be along, I'm sure of it...hope to talk to you soon.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 537459, member: 12886"] Oh please don't be nervous. I would be willing to bet the vast majority of posters here have felt as you are feeling right now...it is a weird feeling to talk about such serious and lonely topics. I have a child who speaks in mean words (has even said "I won't do it, but I wish I could just squeeze your neck and kill you".....pretty hard not to take that and being called a Mo....f-word, b-word, n-word, etc....just can go on and on. Or, youre such a stupid :censored2:. uggg I hate that, yesterday at the playground heard kids from 7 to 15 saying far worse and it helped put some perspective on it since our Pervasive Developmental Disorder (PDD)-ers dont really get the rules for words you say only among friends ( not that t hose are OK but kids know to hide it, etc) and how to treat different adults with different levels of respect. While I do feel it, I often have to really detach my emotions and go into therapy mom mode. I turn off all extra sounds in the house and do reflect what he means (if his outburst is because of a change I work on the change, etc...). I do have to realize he didn't choose to have this frustration, this issue. Not.his.fault. Yes, we have to teach, correct, appropriately consequence(if meaningful for your child)...but the main thing is to do what you a re doing....figure out what is going on. medications? End of school? Changes in home?? Sensory issues, growth, whatever....it can be so overwhelming. Journaling can really help (record days, times, concerns, food, whatever you feel is needed....make sure to include the schedule.) Anyway, gotta go get Q...really glad you joined. Lots of welcome wagon folks will be along, I'm sure of it...hope to talk to you soon. [/QUOTE]
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