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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 358678" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Sending LOTS of hugs. Is there any way the caseworker and/or therapist can do an intervention on easy child and girlfriend to knock them out of their bossy selfishness? With you backing them up? It is HARD to stand up for yourself when they are so demanding and you are so sick. They must realize SOON that they are being selfish jerks who should worship you instead of giving you attitude. I din't know how or if it is possible for difficult child to change, unless you force the medication issues she balks at. That is probably more than you can handle.</p><p></p><p>It really IS ok to take a day to curl up in bed and if anyone bothers you just stick your fingers in your ears (or use earplugs) and yell "La la la I caaaaaan't HEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEAAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRR YOU!".</p><p></p><p>NOT joking. I once did that to Wiz for an entire day when he was about 13. I was really sick physically and emotionally and just could NOT take anything else. My mother and bro had declared war on me (old issue) and Wiz was nearing his worst. He was home again because he kept puking at school from severe anxiety and he was being a little sh** with yelling at me and calling me names. The other two were in school so for the school day I did NOTHING but refuse to hear him.</p><p></p><p>It was childish in some ways. It was also exactly 100% what he had been doing to me anytime I spoke to him or even NEAR him to someone else.</p><p></p><p>It may alarm them. GOOD. They SHOULD worry about what you will do next. That insecurity will encourage them to treat you well so you don't erupt again. EXACTLY what they do to you!</p><p></p><p>Many gentle hugs to you and some treaties and a snuggle and a nice ear and head scratch for Isa. Isa ish a good girl, yesh she is, she is such a sweetie, such Mommie's sweetie girl!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 358678, member: 1233"] Sending LOTS of hugs. Is there any way the caseworker and/or therapist can do an intervention on easy child and girlfriend to knock them out of their bossy selfishness? With you backing them up? It is HARD to stand up for yourself when they are so demanding and you are so sick. They must realize SOON that they are being selfish jerks who should worship you instead of giving you attitude. I din't know how or if it is possible for difficult child to change, unless you force the medication issues she balks at. That is probably more than you can handle. It really IS ok to take a day to curl up in bed and if anyone bothers you just stick your fingers in your ears (or use earplugs) and yell "La la la I caaaaaan't HEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEAAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRR YOU!". NOT joking. I once did that to Wiz for an entire day when he was about 13. I was really sick physically and emotionally and just could NOT take anything else. My mother and bro had declared war on me (old issue) and Wiz was nearing his worst. He was home again because he kept puking at school from severe anxiety and he was being a little sh** with yelling at me and calling me names. The other two were in school so for the school day I did NOTHING but refuse to hear him. It was childish in some ways. It was also exactly 100% what he had been doing to me anytime I spoke to him or even NEAR him to someone else. It may alarm them. GOOD. They SHOULD worry about what you will do next. That insecurity will encourage them to treat you well so you don't erupt again. EXACTLY what they do to you! Many gentle hugs to you and some treaties and a snuggle and a nice ear and head scratch for Isa. Isa ish a good girl, yesh she is, she is such a sweetie, such Mommie's sweetie girl! [/QUOTE]
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