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<blockquote data-quote="Prayfort23" data-source="post: 608671" data-attributes="member: 16401"><p>I don't know what to do... I need advice. My daughter who was doing awesome, left sober living last Friday.. She did not want to move into my house for the fact that she thinks its a sad place because of her past use. She moved in with her girlfriend and mom about 5 min away. </p><p>We painted her room last Friday and we got all her stuff in there. </p><p>She's been borrowing my car this week to go to meetings. I've been feeling pretty weird about things pertaining to her... I had a hunch she wasn't telling me the truth.. </p><p>Today I text her and she didn't respond... Red flag.. Kept calling, nothing. Finally she said she would be right here..... She didn't come in, only told me to come outside... </p><p>I get in the car to drive her back to her house and I ask her what's wrong..she tells me "nothing I just had a bad day, I don't want to talk about it because you will freak out"</p><p>So I start freaking out.... I drop her off she tells me she loves me and I leave..</p><p>I pull up in my driveway and I am over one with bad feelings... So I drive back to her house to talk... Turn down the street and she's walking... It's 9:00 at night... </p><p>I pull over and ask what she's doing. She says "did you come to do a 12 step on me??" She gets in car and I ask her wth is happening... Where is she going...</p><p>She tells me she was going to del taco, so I take her there..</p><p>She tells me she was hanging out with her ex who is actively using..they got in a fight at her house and the friends mom heard unbeknownst to her... When I dropped her off there she heard a bunch of people outside in back talking about drugs and she heard the mom say she doesn't want her there if she's using.... </p><p>So instead of getting intervened she left...</p><p>I'm freaking out in my head..</p><p>She's crying to me saying she feels like everyone is putting her on a pedestal and looking at her expecting her not to screw up... So feels so much pressure to be perfect.. </p><p>She said she hasn't used but wants to and her dirtbag ex told her that he won't be the first to use with her but when she does it he'll hang out with her...????????? </p><p>I sat with her in the car for 3 hours talking to her trying to see that she had come do far, why go in this slippery slope?? </p><p>She says she pry got kicked out of her friends house and Does not want to stay there.. </p><p>She says she never wanted this yo happen and she looks at other people her age and they are not going thru what she is.. </p><p>I told her she has to slay her demons..</p><p>She's home sleeping right now..</p><p>I'm back to horrified.. I'm sleeping on the couch again... What do I do??</p><p>She was all into 12 step and even had sponsorees. Now she's saying its all bs...... </p><p>What do I do????</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Prayfort23, post: 608671, member: 16401"] I don't know what to do... I need advice. My daughter who was doing awesome, left sober living last Friday.. She did not want to move into my house for the fact that she thinks its a sad place because of her past use. She moved in with her girlfriend and mom about 5 min away. We painted her room last Friday and we got all her stuff in there. She's been borrowing my car this week to go to meetings. I've been feeling pretty weird about things pertaining to her... I had a hunch she wasn't telling me the truth.. Today I text her and she didn't respond... Red flag.. Kept calling, nothing. Finally she said she would be right here..... She didn't come in, only told me to come outside... I get in the car to drive her back to her house and I ask her what's wrong..she tells me "nothing I just had a bad day, I don't want to talk about it because you will freak out" So I start freaking out.... I drop her off she tells me she loves me and I leave.. I pull up in my driveway and I am over one with bad feelings... So I drive back to her house to talk... Turn down the street and she's walking... It's 9:00 at night... I pull over and ask what she's doing. She says "did you come to do a 12 step on me??" She gets in car and I ask her wth is happening... Where is she going... She tells me she was going to del taco, so I take her there.. She tells me she was hanging out with her ex who is actively using..they got in a fight at her house and the friends mom heard unbeknownst to her... When I dropped her off there she heard a bunch of people outside in back talking about drugs and she heard the mom say she doesn't want her there if she's using.... So instead of getting intervened she left... I'm freaking out in my head.. She's crying to me saying she feels like everyone is putting her on a pedestal and looking at her expecting her not to screw up... So feels so much pressure to be perfect.. She said she hasn't used but wants to and her dirtbag ex told her that he won't be the first to use with her but when she does it he'll hang out with her...????????? I sat with her in the car for 3 hours talking to her trying to see that she had come do far, why go in this slippery slope?? She says she pry got kicked out of her friends house and Does not want to stay there.. She says she never wanted this yo happen and she looks at other people her age and they are not going thru what she is.. I told her she has to slay her demons.. She's home sleeping right now.. I'm back to horrified.. I'm sleeping on the couch again... What do I do?? She was all into 12 step and even had sponsorees. Now she's saying its all bs...... What do I do???? [/QUOTE]
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