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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 570885" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>Sending my sympathies your way. If husband won't talk about it then you really don't have much choice but to go with the flow. Do make sure that you have legal/financial protection for YOUR interests and the children. In my experience the "friendly" divorces often lead wives to believe that their husband's will make sure the family is well taken care of...but, alas, I have seen many very good men turn into self serving people pdq particularly if they find new female companionship. I am not trying to depress you. Honestly, I'm not. on the other hand my Ex turned into a non participatory or caring Dad in less than a year after we separated. It happens.</p><p></p><p>Regarding the children Janet wrapped that up in her post. They need to be out of the stress as much as humanly possible. They need to believe that their Mom and Dad both love them very much. Maintaining "sameness" is the goal. Best of luck. It is not an easy road even when both adults are nice. Hugs DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 570885, member: 35"] Sending my sympathies your way. If husband won't talk about it then you really don't have much choice but to go with the flow. Do make sure that you have legal/financial protection for YOUR interests and the children. In my experience the "friendly" divorces often lead wives to believe that their husband's will make sure the family is well taken care of...but, alas, I have seen many very good men turn into self serving people pdq particularly if they find new female companionship. I am not trying to depress you. Honestly, I'm not. on the other hand my Ex turned into a non participatory or caring Dad in less than a year after we separated. It happens. Regarding the children Janet wrapped that up in her post. They need to be out of the stress as much as humanly possible. They need to believe that their Mom and Dad both love them very much. Maintaining "sameness" is the goal. Best of luck. It is not an easy road even when both adults are nice. Hugs DDD [/QUOTE]
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