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<blockquote data-quote="rejectedmom" data-source="post: 570923" data-attributes="member: 2315"><p>I am so sorry for your pain. I do not know why men refuse to go to coulseling but many do. He seems to have made up his mind without ever taking the time to talk to you about being unhappy. You need time to digest this. He has obviously been thinking about it for a while but it is all new to you. Do not make any decisions while you are in this state. Get your own lawyer. What ever you do, do not use the same attorney and do not agree to anything without running it by your own lawyer first. FWIW, My friend told me that the best advice she got when her husband asked for a divorce was 1) to let the judge decide what the ex could afford to pay in alimony and child support. and 2) buy a new wardrobe for the kids and self before the divorce. And 3) make sure her car was in good working order with decent tires before filing any paperwork. -RM</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="rejectedmom, post: 570923, member: 2315"] I am so sorry for your pain. I do not know why men refuse to go to coulseling but many do. He seems to have made up his mind without ever taking the time to talk to you about being unhappy. You need time to digest this. He has obviously been thinking about it for a while but it is all new to you. Do not make any decisions while you are in this state. Get your own lawyer. What ever you do, do not use the same attorney and do not agree to anything without running it by your own lawyer first. FWIW, My friend told me that the best advice she got when her husband asked for a divorce was 1) to let the judge decide what the ex could afford to pay in alimony and child support. and 2) buy a new wardrobe for the kids and self before the divorce. And 3) make sure her car was in good working order with decent tires before filing any paperwork. -RM [/QUOTE]
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