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<blockquote data-quote="New Leaf" data-source="post: 674814" data-attributes="member: 19522"><p>Hi Penny, so sorry for all of your troubles that got you back here posting, oh boy, can I ever say been there, done that. I thought the same, that maybe the kids would wake up having to care for their own, still waiting 11 long years and 3 gks after.......</p><p><span style="color: #b30000">You are not so stupid....it is hard to use our heads, when our hearts are so involved.</span></p><p> Yes, our dcs are <em>selfish</em>. It is unfortunate, that they cannot even put their precious babies, ahead of their childish wants and moods.</p><p></p><p> It is hard, Penny.</p><p>I know CPS was supposed to get involved, nothing came of it?</p><p></p><p> My Tornado has used the Grands to tug at my heart strings, it is a horrible game.</p><p></p><p> I think the biggest concern is the baby, he cannot fend for himself.</p><p></p><p> It is so tough, nobody needs this. These kids, where do they come from? I definitely did not raise mine to act the way they act. Don't be so hard on yourself, Penny, we all falter. Especially when there are grands involved. That is what kept me in the game for so long. I do not know if anything has changed, haven't heard from them in awhile. I am hoping for the best. The kids are their responsibility. I was not helping any of them, by helping....</p><p></p><p> Do not blame yourself. Sometimes it is just because, thats why. Be it mental challenges, or drugs, it is not your fault.</p><p>I guess it is back to square one then, figuring out what steps to take. Let us know Penny, we care. There are folks here like me, who have been right where you are at...keep posting, it really does help.</p><p>You are not stupid, and you are not alone.</p><p>(((HUGS)))</p><p>leafy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="New Leaf, post: 674814, member: 19522"] Hi Penny, so sorry for all of your troubles that got you back here posting, oh boy, can I ever say been there, done that. I thought the same, that maybe the kids would wake up having to care for their own, still waiting 11 long years and 3 gks after....... [COLOR=#b30000]You are not so stupid....it is hard to use our heads, when our hearts are so involved.[/COLOR] Yes, our dcs are [I]selfish[/I]. It is unfortunate, that they cannot even put their precious babies, ahead of their childish wants and moods. It is hard, Penny. I know CPS was supposed to get involved, nothing came of it? My Tornado has used the Grands to tug at my heart strings, it is a horrible game. I think the biggest concern is the baby, he cannot fend for himself. It is so tough, nobody needs this. These kids, where do they come from? I definitely did not raise mine to act the way they act. Don't be so hard on yourself, Penny, we all falter. Especially when there are grands involved. That is what kept me in the game for so long. I do not know if anything has changed, haven't heard from them in awhile. I am hoping for the best. The kids are their responsibility. I was not helping any of them, by helping.... Do not blame yourself. Sometimes it is just because, thats why. Be it mental challenges, or drugs, it is not your fault. I guess it is back to square one then, figuring out what steps to take. Let us know Penny, we care. There are folks here like me, who have been right where you are at...keep posting, it really does help. You are not stupid, and you are not alone. (((HUGS))) leafy [/QUOTE]
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