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I'm so stupid. It's supposed to be when you know better, you do better.
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 674820" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Well...then it's up to you. But first the parents have to both lose custody per the court and it is all done legally. You'd need a lawyer and to fight for custody. If mother wants the child, that would be fighting her too. If her dysfunctional mother goes for custody, she can too. </p><p></p><p>You need proof of behavior for CPS to end custody. If you can produce drug use or know drugs are with either your son or daughter, CPS may be able to find that out. This isn't a time to worry about your grown son or his girlfriend. I've dealt with CPS as a foster mother...you can get a case re-opened if you can prove the parents are unfit. But it takes time. You can not get legal rights to the child if you don't go to court which means your son and the mother can blackmail you if they allow you to take care of the baby. They can take the baby from you at any time if THEY still are the legal guardians.</p><p></p><p>It's complicated, but worth the fight for the baby in my opinion.</p><p></p><p>Hugs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 674820, member: 1550"] Well...then it's up to you. But first the parents have to both lose custody per the court and it is all done legally. You'd need a lawyer and to fight for custody. If mother wants the child, that would be fighting her too. If her dysfunctional mother goes for custody, she can too. You need proof of behavior for CPS to end custody. If you can produce drug use or know drugs are with either your son or daughter, CPS may be able to find that out. This isn't a time to worry about your grown son or his girlfriend. I've dealt with CPS as a foster mother...you can get a case re-opened if you can prove the parents are unfit. But it takes time. You can not get legal rights to the child if you don't go to court which means your son and the mother can blackmail you if they allow you to take care of the baby. They can take the baby from you at any time if THEY still are the legal guardians. It's complicated, but worth the fight for the baby in my opinion. Hugs. [/QUOTE]
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